"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My life may have changed for ever. ( question about std's)

dmatter

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Long story short had unprotected sex about 8 times with this girl throughout the months of december and once in january. The last time I had sex with her was jan 7th after we break up I find out her ex had an std and told her to go get checked, horrified i went to the clinic with her and found out i dont have any of the diseases they test for but they didnt test for herpes, and according to her exes symptoms ( the son of a ***** wwont tell her) it may be herpes and i may have caught the virus. all of this is uncertain and i have to go get tested for everything. So my question is i know herpes cant be rid of and i havent shown any symptoms or had any breakouts my question is if i get it treated will it prevetn breakouts? or it from showing at all?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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eatgel

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Dun Duun dun dun Duuunnn dun duun dun dun duuummmm!
 

JohnnyIrish

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Why didn't they test for herpes when you got tested?
 
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