Long story short had unprotected sex about 8 times with this girl throughout the months of december and once in january. The last time I had sex with her was jan 7th after we break up I find out her ex had an std and told her to go get checked, horrified i went to the clinic with her and found out i dont have any of the diseases they test for but they didnt test for herpes, and according to her exes symptoms ( the son of a ***** wwont tell her) it may be herpes and i may have caught the virus. all of this is uncertain and i have to go get tested for everything. So my question is i know herpes cant be rid of and i havent shown any symptoms or had any breakouts my question is if i get it treated will it prevetn breakouts? or it from showing at all?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My life may have changed for ever. ( question about std's)
- Thread starter dmatter
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
JohnnyIrish
Master Don Juan
Why didn't they test for herpes when you got tested?
