lol, shes not cheating on her bf, she never would, i think shes just not sure of him cos of him being non-christian and her being one. Shes not sure if hes the one for her ( Is it him that God wants her to go out with and settle down). She says hes got everything she wants in a guy ( if i tell what that is you guys will laugh your head off ) except that hes a christian. I kinda had a debate with her saying God only wants us to go out with christian people and I kinda backed it up from the Bible. She started agreeing with me and saying that this relationship of hers, shes just gonna make it temporary thing.
I am not sucking upto her in any way. I am just trying to be myself. If she doenst like me for who I am, her loss. But my other mate thinks I just havent shown enough interest in her. I said yea maybe. Like I keep my distance from her sometimes at church, when she talks to me, I dont get all exicted about it. I hardly compliment her or let her catch me checking her out. I will probably text her or email her once or twice a week. I do ignore her once in a while.
Well these are the events that happened a couple of days ago. I asked her if I needed to be a student to study at the uni library. Thats all I asked her. ( txted her btw, I do my uni online and needed to go a really good library to get some books for my assignment).
her: u need to be a student to get the books out but u can still study there, email me cos I am running out of credit on my fone.
I dont email her, but she ends up emailing me a couple of hours later.
her: if u want we can meet up and I can get the books out for u. Just tell me which ones u want or I can just bring them to u on thursday at the bibliology class.
me: yea that would be good thanx. and then I gave her a small list of books i was after
her: k i will try to get them, i have got a auckland city library card as well and we could try there, btw if you need someone to study with or need to use me as a sounding board to understand things we've learnt in class then just give me a call whenever. Its really important to reinforce your learning with different methods and one of the best known ways is explaining something you've learnt with another person.
me: yea that would be good too, i think i could learn a lot studying with u. cheers
Then we arranged to meet up at her uni. I met her at the library we went and got the books out and she said lets go outside cos we cant talk in here. We went out to a park and we were just talking about what we were learing, i tried to talk about other stuff as well like her legs that seemed like she had forgotten to wax them for a couple of days. She said she didnt care. time kinda flew and it was time for her lecture. She then told me that i should go with her to her lecture. I was like what? she said it would be good cos theres a lot of paintings on Christ and Mary (shes studying art history). I didnt say anything at first, she then said yea but it might get boring for u i guess, I said to her if it gets boring I will just walk out.
The lecture went fine, we were a little late and 10mins later both sides of the long desks I was sitting at got blocked off. And the class being really small, like 30 ppl i think, I didnt wanna disturb anyone cos it would kinda make a scene. I was one of only two guys in her class : )
Well after the lecture I went home and she had some other stuff to do. That night she emailed me saying heres some more information on the stuff we were on about. I replied saying thanx for today, I had a good time hanging around with u. laters...
