My life is really at stake help me out

[Polaris_shines]

I have a serious problem if u would like to answer.This lady ,19,moved with her husband and kid in a portion of our house as tenant.I 15 got very fond of her kid and herself but in an only friendly manner.Mine and her family grew ties with each other.Times came when she became economicaly unstable and her husband moved to another country.I as a gentleman took care of them in every possible manner and thus we drew close and I came to know that her husband had lost interest in her because of other women.I dont know when but my emotions for her changed.I want to tell her about them but am afraid that she might think it wrongly because she is weak at this point and I would be acting acting selfishly.(She holds high place for me thinks very highly of me even respects me but just taking it further is difficult.)What should I do.How should I act?It has been 3 years since she moved in .Please help me out.This is not a case of cheating.Open up ur minds.This is real love.

 

[saki]

I would go for her! I dont think she is going to realize you are going for her because of her desperation. You are a man, go after what you want!

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Polaris_shines
What should I do.How should I act?

There's a link at the upper right corner of this page called The DJ Bible....if you want to learn how to interact with women, click it and start reading.

It has been 3 years since she moved in .

That's gonna make it tough if she's known you for 3 years. There are two possibilities:

-She has never thought about you romantically
-She has thought about you romantically but rejected you as unfit to be her lover

With the former case, learning how to interact with and attract women and having a strong, masculine attitude can go a long way.

With the latter case, you may be screwed. At any rate, don't sell your life out on this woman just yet.

Please help me out.This is not a case of cheating.Open up ur minds.This is real love.

Get over yourself. You're 15. You have no idea what love IS.

Besides...she's got a KID...suppose she DOES get a divorce...do you want to be step-father to her KID?? (BTW, it IS cheating if they're still married. Get over it)

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Dude, I don't think you wanna deal with the reprecussions of a child, much less one that's not yours.

Sometimes the nani just isn't worth it, and then you move on.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

I still fail to see how your life is at stake here.

 

[EpsilonArmati]

How about you opening your mind up? This is a textbook case of stuff that is begging to go bad.

 

[Polaris_shines]

COME ON

the problem is no one really looked on the message with interest.The only problem is
1)I am 19 years old now.I know what love is.
2)Women donot take 1st steps.Maybe she is interested.
3)I said her husband has lost interest in her and is out of country.
4)I am very fond of her kid.Dont worry.
5)I have more than 50 girls proposing me.Thats not a problem.
6)I am an aeronotical engineer.I know what life is.
The question is that HOW TO ASK HER HAND WITHOUT SEEMING TO BE SELFISH BECAUSE SHE IS ALONE AND WEAK.DONT U UNDERSTAND????? THINK BEFORE GIVING DUMBHEAD ANSWERS...

 

[Polaris_shines]

would you be concentrating this time???please READ CAREFULLY BEFORE ANSWERING

I have a serious problem if u would like to answer.This lady ,19,moved with her husband and kid in a portion of our house as tenant.I 15 got very fond of her kid and herself but in an only friendly manner.Mine and her family grew ties with each other.Times came when she became economicaly unstable and her husband moved to another country.I as a gentleman took care of them in every possible manner and thus we drew close and I came to know that her husband had lost interest in her because of other women.I dont know when but my emotions for her changed.I want to tell her about them but am afraid that she might think it wrongly because she is weak at this point and I would be acting acting selfishly.(She holds high place for me thinks very highly of me even respects me but just taking it further is difficult.)What should I do.How should I act?It has been 3 years since she moved in .Please help me out.This is not a case of cheating.Open up ur minds.This is real love.ONE THING
I GOT SOME ANSWERS BACK WHICH HAD CONFUSIONS LET ME CLEAR THEM:

1)Originally posted by squirrels
There's a link at the upper right corner of this page called The DJ Bible....if you want to learn how to interact with women, click it and start reading
MY ANSWER....I have more than 50 girls proposing me.Thats not a problem.

2)Originally posted by squirrels
That's gonna make it tough if she's known you for 3 years. There are two possibilities:

-She has never thought about you romantically
-She has thought about you romantically but rejected you as unfit to be her lover

With the former case, learning how to interact with and attract women and having a strong, masculine attitude can go a long way.

With the latter case, you may be screwed. At any rate, don't sell your life out on this woman just yet.
MY ANSWER...Women donot take 1st steps.Maybe she is interested.


3)Originally posted by squirrels
Get over yourself. You're 15. You have no idea what love IS.
MY ANSWER...I am 19 years old now.I know what love is.I am an aeronotical engineer.I know what life is.

4)Originally posted by squirrels
Besides...she's got a KID...suppose she DOES get a divorce...do you want to be step-father to her KID??
MY ANSWER...I am very fond of her kid.Dont worry.

5)Originally posted by squirrels
BTW, it IS cheating if they're still married. Get over it
MY ANSWER...I said her husband has lost interest in her and is out of country.

NOW LISTEN CAREFULLY.THE PROBLEM IS NOT TO ATTRACT HER I CAN ATTRACT ANY.The question is that HOW TO ASK HER HAND WITHOUT SEEMING TO BE SELFISH BECAUSE SHE IS ALONE AND WEAK.DONT U UNDERSTAND????? THINK BEFORE GIVING DUMBHEAD ANSWERS...

 

[Desdinova]

First of all, why couldn't you post your lame attempt to defend yourself in your other thread?

This is real love

Care to explain what love is? I'll give you a clue, Love isn't the desire to be with someone else.

The question is that HOW TO ASK HER HAND WITHOUT SEEMING TO BE SELFISH

You just said that this is love.

.I dont know when but my emotions for her changed.I want to tell her about them but am afraid that she might think it wrongly because

You want to know how to vomit your feeling to her.

First of all, you shouldn't have developed emotions for one of your tenants. You should've kept everything at a business level.

Second, you want to be her knight in shining armour like in those romance novels you read.

You want to start this non-existant relationship off with romance. This can't be done. You need to begin a relationship, even a short term one by attracting her to you. She's going to lean on you for help until she's ready to fvck some other guy. You are her emotional tampon, and her chocolate to soothe her pain. That's all you are.

 

[thefonz]

There's alot of emotions flying around here......emotions are for girls, logic is for men

Bail quickly and saftely

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

think about ti for a second, firstly at 19 she will not want a relationship with a 15 year old. If she was not living in the same house as you and you did not see her so much i would say sure knock yourself out, but do you not realise how much there is at risk here. Dont do it.