okay, i'm goign to say this flat out. SOSUAVE changed my life for the better. I realized htis today when I got out of school early for soccer. I saw a GYM class walking around and I was just walking minding my own business and all of a sudden i hear 5-6 girls go hey todd whats up. Liek these girls i would have neve rbefriended if there was no sosuave. Before this site I was lucky if liek I got 5-6 girls to talk to me per day!! I'm not a DJ yet that is for damn sure but since I started reading this site, my confidence has boosted tons and my overall conversation with girls has jumped leaps and bounds. So thank you SoSuave I'll be here for much much longer but this is just my update on how my life has progressed since I came here.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
my life before and after.
- Thread starter toddC
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
been there done that. Welcome to taking your first steps into becoming the man of your dreams that you always wanted to become. Welcome it is a long road but I forsee good things from you.
Wow, I was just going to post a thread about something like this.
I just got a girls number. This girl is a HB8.5, one of the most popular junior girls and I'm a sophomore. We might party tomorrow night
EDIT: Just so I can brag some more, she basically forced me to ask for her number. I would've done it anyways, but she was so interested in me she purposefully put me in a situation where I couldn't come out from it without her number.
I just got a girls number. This girl is a HB8.5, one of the most popular junior girls and I'm a sophomore. We might party tomorrow night
EDIT: Just so I can brag some more, she basically forced me to ask for her number. I would've done it anyways, but she was so interested in me she purposefully put me in a situation where I couldn't come out from it without her number.
six-foot AZN '05
Don Juan
how long did it take for the change to happen so i can get an idea
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.