"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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my life before and after.

toddC

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okay, i'm goign to say this flat out. SOSUAVE changed my life for the better. I realized htis today when I got out of school early for soccer. I saw a GYM class walking around and I was just walking minding my own business and all of a sudden i hear 5-6 girls go hey todd whats up. Liek these girls i would have neve rbefriended if there was no sosuave. Before this site I was lucky if liek I got 5-6 girls to talk to me per day!! I'm not a DJ yet that is for damn sure but since I started reading this site, my confidence has boosted tons and my overall conversation with girls has jumped leaps and bounds. So thank you SoSuave I'll be here for much much longer but this is just my update on how my life has progressed since I came here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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comic_relief

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been there done that. Welcome to taking your first steps into becoming the man of your dreams that you always wanted to become. Welcome it is a long road but I forsee good things from you.
 

TheNewGuy

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Wow, I was just going to post a thread about something like this.

I just got a girls number. This girl is a HB8.5, one of the most popular junior girls and I'm a sophomore. We might party tomorrow night :D

:up:

EDIT: Just so I can brag some more, she basically forced me to ask for her number. I would've done it anyways, but she was so interested in me she purposefully put me in a situation where I couldn't come out from it without her number.
 

toddC

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yea groups of girls in my school are flocking towards my friends and I. Not all because of me but yes i'll give myself a little credit, i did help out some.
 

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how long did it take for the change to happen so i can get an idea
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by six-foot AZN '05
how long did it take for the change to happen so i can get an idea
It'll vary from person to person, but I started reading this site mid-summer. Working out has also been a serious confidence booster.
 
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