"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my life before and after.

toddC

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okay, i'm goign to say this flat out. SOSUAVE changed my life for the better. I realized htis today when I got out of school early for soccer. I saw a GYM class walking around and I was just walking minding my own business and all of a sudden i hear 5-6 girls go hey todd whats up. Liek these girls i would have neve rbefriended if there was no sosuave. Before this site I was lucky if liek I got 5-6 girls to talk to me per day!! I'm not a DJ yet that is for damn sure but since I started reading this site, my confidence has boosted tons and my overall conversation with girls has jumped leaps and bounds. So thank you SoSuave I'll be here for much much longer but this is just my update on how my life has progressed since I came here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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comic_relief

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been there done that. Welcome to taking your first steps into becoming the man of your dreams that you always wanted to become. Welcome it is a long road but I forsee good things from you.
 

TheNewGuy

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Wow, I was just going to post a thread about something like this.

I just got a girls number. This girl is a HB8.5, one of the most popular junior girls and I'm a sophomore. We might party tomorrow night :D

:up:

EDIT: Just so I can brag some more, she basically forced me to ask for her number. I would've done it anyways, but she was so interested in me she purposefully put me in a situation where I couldn't come out from it without her number.
 

toddC

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yea groups of girls in my school are flocking towards my friends and I. Not all because of me but yes i'll give myself a little credit, i did help out some.
 

six-foot AZN '05

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how long did it take for the change to happen so i can get an idea
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by six-foot AZN '05
how long did it take for the change to happen so i can get an idea
It'll vary from person to person, but I started reading this site mid-summer. Working out has also been a serious confidence booster.
 
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