"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LearningSlowly

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After this I'm going to change my password to random numbers so I lose access to this account. I expect anyone I need to talk to has already added me on FB.

This forum has taught me how to be successful. Unlike other members, I don't see sex with women as the ultimate goal. Maybe I lost my virginity too early for that. Sex with women is something fun to pass the time, you just have to already be worth something to start getting it.

The way to become worth anything is simple hard work. The last 3 days I've been waking up at 5 am to be successful. I swim, draw and read in the mornings, work on pottery or basketball in the afternoons and call some female friends later to talk or set up something in person. The easiest way to be good with girls is to have many priorities and to work on them.

Consistency is key. You don't have to make a routine and stick to it nonstop for 5 years, you need to be flexible and priority #1 is self improvement. If you want to be good with girls, be like Mindgamez and give yourself a 30 day approach every day challenge. That takes willpower. If you want to dance better then be like jericq (spelled right?) and start dancing. Work on it, then find a group or a teacher who is better than you so you can improve more.

If you are interested in more than one thing, spend 1-3 months working on it at a time. Last month I went to Israel and kept a sketchbook going. The month before that I got to the gym every day to work on my basketball game. I set a goal of how many 3s I would make and I got in the gym and went beyond it. When I get back to college I'm taking basketball as a class 3 times a week and I'll be glad I've set myself up for success early.

There is no bad luck. There are only challenges. Either you are prepared for those challenges or you aren't. Be a Don Juan. Whatever you want, take it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drook

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I can tell you're going to do great things, man. I don't even know what to tell you because you already have everything down.

Thanks for all the advice and for being a general inspiration on this board. I hope that once you finish what you're shooting for you come back here and teach all the newbies what you've learned. Until then, godspeed.
 

RiceandChicken

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See ya LS!! You have passed a plethora of knowledge on to this board. Well done man.
 

AlexLefty

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Aww. This makes me sad. Especially since I deleted my fb
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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Social_Leper said:
This is my first time in the HS forum but if all you posters have the same mentality as the OP, you're doing a lot better than a lot of the guys here. Even those in the Mature Man.
Maybe we should invite them all for a field-trip of the HS forum :)
 

SyncBoss

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Dude, you'll definitely be missed! Good luck on your life, you seem like you don't need it though. Haha cya man
 

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sosuave has lost a hero today.

godspeed LS

EDIT: I wonder why he left...
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mindgamez

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Goodbye man! The times I was feeling down, you were there to cheer me up on my journal, and I'm very thankful for that. Your wisdom helped me too.

Become the best you can be! You're awesome man
 
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