"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LearningSlowly

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After this I'm going to change my password to random numbers so I lose access to this account. I expect anyone I need to talk to has already added me on FB.

This forum has taught me how to be successful. Unlike other members, I don't see sex with women as the ultimate goal. Maybe I lost my virginity too early for that. Sex with women is something fun to pass the time, you just have to already be worth something to start getting it.

The way to become worth anything is simple hard work. The last 3 days I've been waking up at 5 am to be successful. I swim, draw and read in the mornings, work on pottery or basketball in the afternoons and call some female friends later to talk or set up something in person. The easiest way to be good with girls is to have many priorities and to work on them.

Consistency is key. You don't have to make a routine and stick to it nonstop for 5 years, you need to be flexible and priority #1 is self improvement. If you want to be good with girls, be like Mindgamez and give yourself a 30 day approach every day challenge. That takes willpower. If you want to dance better then be like jericq (spelled right?) and start dancing. Work on it, then find a group or a teacher who is better than you so you can improve more.

If you are interested in more than one thing, spend 1-3 months working on it at a time. Last month I went to Israel and kept a sketchbook going. The month before that I got to the gym every day to work on my basketball game. I set a goal of how many 3s I would make and I got in the gym and went beyond it. When I get back to college I'm taking basketball as a class 3 times a week and I'll be glad I've set myself up for success early.

There is no bad luck. There are only challenges. Either you are prepared for those challenges or you aren't. Be a Don Juan. Whatever you want, take it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Drook

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I can tell you're going to do great things, man. I don't even know what to tell you because you already have everything down.

Thanks for all the advice and for being a general inspiration on this board. I hope that once you finish what you're shooting for you come back here and teach all the newbies what you've learned. Until then, godspeed.
 

RiceandChicken

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See ya LS!! You have passed a plethora of knowledge on to this board. Well done man.
 

AlexLefty

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Aww. This makes me sad. Especially since I deleted my fb
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorwegianDJ

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Social_Leper said:
This is my first time in the HS forum but if all you posters have the same mentality as the OP, you're doing a lot better than a lot of the guys here. Even those in the Mature Man.
Maybe we should invite them all for a field-trip of the HS forum :)
 

SyncBoss

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Dude, you'll definitely be missed! Good luck on your life, you seem like you don't need it though. Haha cya man
 

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sosuave has lost a hero today.

godspeed LS

EDIT: I wonder why he left...
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mindgamez

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Goodbye man! The times I was feeling down, you were there to cheer me up on my journal, and I'm very thankful for that. Your wisdom helped me too.

Become the best you can be! You're awesome man
 
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