"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vodkaholic

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Ive just realised sommot.

Coming to a forum everyway and talking about relationships and how to bag women is ***** stuff!

I feel like all these posts, even this site is pointless. Sorry, I don`t know what came over me.

If you want to feel like a man, listen to a song by Elvis, Cash or, toa lesser extent, Sinatra
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Omega

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Originally posted by Vodkaholic
Ive just realised sommot.

Coming to a forum everyway and talking about relationships and how to bag women is ***** stuff!

I feel like all these posts, even this site is pointless. Sorry, I don`t know what came over me.

If you want to feel like a man, listen to a song by Elvis, Cash or, toa lesser extent, Sinatra
Thanks for that. Now get the f*ck out.
 

cactus3178

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You might try sticking around for a little bit. You might learn something :)
 

JT47319

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Actually what you do is come here, talk about women, and then fantasize about them offline doing absolutely nothing.

I come on in here to share, expound, and dump what I've experienced and learned in the field and then I'm off to another round of socializing, flirting, and womanizing.

Which reality do you think is more fun?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr Spitfire

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Since I started reading this site women have been throwing themselves at me, pining for me, nervously scurrying for a writing instrument when I ask them for thier number....

You must be some bitter chick that is barely bangable and doesnt want guys to know how to get better looking girls.

That or you are still a whiny little wuss that can't man up and treat women like trash.
 
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