"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TooColdUlrick

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i found this site when i googled for "seduction". i wasn't looking for seducing women, i was looking for seducing from a business angle, clients. some of you know who i am and what i do and know where i'm coming from in that regard.

i am the center of attention. i am a leader. i have over 5,000 hours logged, speaking in front of large groups of people, highly professional people, some of whom have a net worth more than the members of ss combined. these cats have game beyond belief. i have written (been solicited) numerous articles in leading newspapers on various "things" related to business. i have over 6,000 people in my address book who know me and love me.

i am an important person. i've busted my hump to get there. BS, MS, PhD, in finance/economics. successful consulting practice, successful teacher of twisted MBAs.

i know how to charm the fvck out of people.

but i was looking to polish those skills. me and my buds (in the real world) always joke about this concept...

if you can pick up clients, you can pick up chicks.

it's the same dynamic.

i found this site via mASF. Speed Seduction, and Ross J in particular, is a joke. but this site was different, in that it focused more on inner game, releasing your Inner Dolphin :D .

there are some interesting people here, no doubt. but mostly, it's cheap entertainment. the mods are keyboard jockeys...sorry guys, you are.

when i approached my 500th post, that was going to be my last one. exactly at 500, then buh-bye.

now i am approaching my 1,000th post. :yawn:

read Pook, read Anti-Dump, read the Bible, then get the fvck out of here. there are only a few basic concepts that one must know to step up his game...not just with chicks, but with Life.

1. learn how to play chess.
2. learn how to play poker.
3. speak in front of people as much as you can, any way you can.
4. be a fair and reasonable man.

as Kenny Rodgers said...

know when to hold 'em...
know when to fold 'em...
know when to walk away...
know when to run...

remember that, sing that, live that.

when i was about 12 years old, my father busted me in his bathroom shaving, with his razor and his shaving cream. he showed me how to do it the right way and proceeded to tell me two things...

Baby TooCold...

1. never believe what a woman says, believe what she does
2. never take sh!t from a woman

it was much, much, later that i realized what he actually meant. until the day he died (a little over a year ago), he was always the DJ. he had over 1,000 turnout for the funeral, standing room only.

i am proud to say, I Am My Father's Son.

i will not respond to this post. and no, a chick isn't the reason, i am the reason.

good night...god bless...rock on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desdinova

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he showed me how to do it the right way and proceeded to tell me two things...

Baby TooCold...

1. never believe what a woman says, believe what she does
2. never take sh!t from a woman

it was much, much, later that i realized what he actually meant. until the day he died (a little over a year ago), he was always the DJ. he had over 1,000 turnout for the funeral, standing room only.

i am proud to say, I Am My Father's Son.
...and that's the way it should be. Many AFCs out there will raise their boys to become feminine men, and many boys will be raised by only their mothers and also become feminine men. You sound like one of the few who got a good start to life by having a real man for a father.

Good luck on your future endeavors. You WILL be successful.
 

Vulpine

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Bon Voyage!

It's one of the dj principles: know when to walk away.

If I was in the audience at a taping of the Man Show, and Dr. Phil came on as a guest, I'd get up and leave.

Sayonara. :wave:
 

driver55

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Good Luck...

You had a good father...some just have fvcking cowards for fathers...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Zonder

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so long, and thanks for all the tips

I've learned a lot from your posts through the years. The tips you occasionally wrote were rock-solid. But even more important was the attitude you conveyed. That alone can easily get a DJ into a chick's panties, and this is the most important thing people could learn from you.

My favorite among your many excellent posts was the one where you did the impossible by proving that chicks in their late 30's and 40's are delusionals from lala-land. Absolutely brilliant.

So long, Cold.
 

WaterTiger

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Peace & good luck Too Cold...You will be missed!
 

warpy

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from what i have seen the last year, your contribution is definitely something that this site will miss, reconsider ? even the greatest leaders of our nations usually change their minds.. even if not.. its been a blast. cheers !
 

WestCoaster

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Thanks Too Cold

Always liked your posts, great stuff (never understood your handle) and I'll greatly miss the hilarious Ernest Borgnine reference ... first time I saw it I about fell out of my chair laughing.

Keep up the good work in your life.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ethnomethodologist

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lol Cesare, delete this post, and your double post

teehee, you double posted just so you could misspell the word anything
 

DJ_in_making

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Yea, now's a good time for me to leave too!

After a while you can only learn more through experience.

I found this site while I was in High School, i could never find a good seduction site b4 this one. It was the original black and gold web site. I read every single bible thread and was hooked, i read EVERYTHING b4 i even thought about posting on the forum.
I have grown not only in the aspect of girls but the confidence has helped me in other areas. Good Luck to the guys still in it! may you all achieve your goals.



LATER PLAYERS!!!!!! :up: :crackup: :cheer: :cry: :( :eek:
 
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Too Cold - Are you an "Economic Hit Man"?
 

stevera004

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WestCoaster said:
Always liked your posts, great stuff (never understood your handle) and I'll greatly miss the hilarious Ernest Borgnine reference ... first time I saw it I about fell out of my chair laughing.

Keep up the good work in your life.
I'm drinking a beer for ya now TooCold, and like WestCoaster, I could never figure out your handle. Moderators, while this was (by a literal interpretation of the posting guidelines) not a post for the Mature Man forum, it should have stayed there as a mark of respect for one of the better members and most insightful poster on the Mature Man forum.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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