"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My Last post for 3 weeks

DreamyChick

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Hey guys,

This will be my last posting until I get back from Europe. Friday I am flying to London, staying there a week and then heading to Germany for 2 weeks. I am so excited yet everyone keeps teasing me about the plane crashing, including the guy I like. Anyway, he called me tonight and we talked a bit and he asked me if I was working all week and I said I was up until I fly out. I asked why he wanted to know and he didn't respond, so I changed the subject.

Then I am telling him how I am excited about the trip, and how I bought a 1 gb memory card and he was all yeah you can take lots of pictures when the plane crashes. I wasn't amused and told him he was being mean. I can't believe you would say that and he responded with I am joking. I'll say a few prayers for you to have a safe flight over the Atlantic. So I forgave him.

So then toward the end of the convo. he asks me to call him after work tomorrow and I am thinking why but I let him finish. He wants me to call, so that if he is home he wants me to stop by his place. So now my mind is going crazy about why he wants me to come over. I just had a b-day the other week and he said something about me telling him what I want but like it was mentioned here I didn't take him seriously. See not too long ago, he told me he didn't want me to come over to his house anymore bc he's trying to maintain friendship boundaries, so I find the fact that he wants me to come over interesting.

Maybe it's the fact that I mentioned a couple times that he would be free of me for 3 weeks, and that I am eager to flirt with men with a british accent lol.

Sorry guys, I had to post, my gfs aren't available right now. Any thoughts? This guy drives me crazy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big Eee Zee

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i dont know what you expect from some guys...

he wants to bone you, do it. its a great idea i pomise
 

Centaurion

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This just came in :
1) We are not your gfs.
2) We don't give a fvck about your ongoing drama.
3) This site is about GUYS picking up CHICKS, not the other way around.
4) Get the fvck out of here.
 

chandidas

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dreamychick...you still here?:crazy:

you really crack me up...i don't think he is going to give you what you want.

you're making things difficult for yourself man:nono:
 

Trapper

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hey baby,

im gonna give you a company so that you could practise on me whatever you wanna do...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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