My last night experience

[manfromitaly]

I wanted to share my experience last night with you, I was on the beach with friends and around 6pm we went to another nearby beach where there was a party, I'm not used to drinking anymore and we had 4 drinks in a short time, so I was a a little tipsy (as mentioned in my other posts, I don't like this situation, I prefer to be sober)

We were at the bar counter and by mistake we bought one too many drinks so we offered it to a girl who was near us, we started jokingly talk to her me and one of my friends.

Shortly after a friend of hers arrived, so we "coupled" and I started talking to the new entry, although I was tipsy I really enjoyed it, we got to know each other a bit, every now and then I made fun of her and slowly I climbed physically more and more (I don't like praising myself but I have to say that I'm good at making things, as I've heard in this field, "man to woman") we really stuck together, she let herself be touched, caressed.

Unfortunately due to unexpected events, me and my friend we had to leave, the girl asked me for my instagram, she started following me, but she still hasn't accepted my request, we live in 2 different cities a few kilometers apart and i told her i would like to meet .

I'm not worried because I really enjoyed myself, I don't care if I never see her again, I'm happy with how I approach women, surely in my part there are people who know how to do it, who have sex, but from what I've seen I don't know how good they are.

It will seem a bit arrogant what I say but I think I am head and shoulders above most people around, I feel very confident.

From experience I know that there aren't many chances to see each other, she too had drunk a bit, she wasn't drunk but definitely not healthy and I know that certain situations either end the same evening or nothing could happen. But she was definitely into me

 

[manfromitaly]

I add that she didn't seem like a party girl to me, she was very calm, then of course women are unpredictable, she might have even talked to other guys after me and had sex, never say never

 

[RazorRambo24]

Had a similar beach experience yesterday .. didnt feel the need to make a post about it but.. mine ended quite differently lol.

Just capitalize.. I mean what was so important that you had to leave? You guys need to realize that when you're getting into this sh.t .. opportunties dont land in your lap every day. to "caress" a girl is lame.. nothing comes out of it and theres no lasting memory. she wont even remember you.

 

[manfromitaly]

Had a similar beach experience yesterday .. didnt feel the need to make a post about it but.. mine ended quite differently lol.

Just capitalize.. I mean what was so important that you had to leave? You guys need to realize that when you're getting into this sh.t .. opportunties dont land in your lap every day. to "caress" a girl is lame.. nothing comes out of it and theres no lasting memory. she wont even remember you.

Yes I had to go, I understand your point of view, honestly I'm not so tied to the result anymore, especially in situations like those, I enjoyed the moment, she has my contact and if she wants we can meet in other circumstances, I was also quite drunk and i don't know if i would have liked to have sex with her the same night, that's my point of view for me.

But you're right about the fact that certain situations have to be understood, in fact at the moment she hasn't been heard from again. And I also told my friend when we left, I told him there was a 20% chance that she and I would hear from each other.

I know how it works.

I made the post because I was still happy with how it went since I haven't been partying for years now.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Yes I had to go, I understand your point of view, honestly I'm not so tied to the result anymore, especially in situations like those, I enjoyed the moment, she has my contact and if she wants we can meet in other circumstances, I was also quite drunk and i don't know if i would have liked to have sex with her the same night, that's my point of view for me.

But you're right about the fact that certain situations have to be understood, in fact at the moment she hasn't been heard from again. And I also told my friend when we left, I told him there was a 20% chance that she and I would hear from each other.

I know how it works.

I made the post because I was still happy with how it went since I haven't been partying for years now.

I totally feel you and I think your overall mindset is "I know I can have good experiences like this with women and thats good enough for me".. This is a mindset that is okay but, its also a inexperienced mindset.. I think in a year or two you'll understand what I mean.. and eventually care more about actually getting more out of the interactions than just letting them be "oh well if she wants to call me she can".. Because you'll learn the only way to really capture womens interest is to do something more than the average guy can do.

There will be times you meet a girl and you REALLY like her, and even might hang with her a few times, just for your friend or someone else to be f-ing the sh.it out of her unbenounced to you while you wonder why she seems distant with you every time you talk to her, despite putting more and more effort to try to get her to like you... Thts life tho.. you're either the man or you're the other guy. The other guy is the one whos benchmark was to capitalize and f-ck her and leave a good impression while your benchmark was just to interact with her and maybe kiss.

 

[manfromitaly]

I totally feel you and I think your overall mindset is "I know I can have good experiences like this with women and thats good enough for me".. This is a mindset that is okay but, its also a inexperienced mindset.. I think in a year or two you'll understand what I mean.. and eventually care more about actually getting more out of the interactions than just letting them be "oh well if she wants to call me she can".. Because you'll learn the only way to really capture womens interest is to do something more than the average guy can do.

There will be times you meet a girl and you REALLY like her, and even might hang with her a few times, just for your friend or someone else to be f-ing the sh.it out of her unbenounced to you while you wonder why she seems distant with you every time you talk to her, despite putting more and more effort to try to get her to like you... Thts life tho.. you're either the man or you're the other guy. The other guy is the one whos benchmark was to capitalize and f-ck her and leave a good impression while your benchmark was just to interact with her and maybe kiss.

Yes I agreed, but I felt satisfied because it has been a while since I had a party, I have enough experience but in the last year I have decided to focus on other things and leave the nights and girls alone.

Compared to a year ago, the situation has improved, think that I'm 32 and I only got my car license a few months ago, now I'm saving up to get a motorbike, then I'll get involved like a few years ago.

If I missed the opportunity with that girl it's because I had to go with my friend otherwise I wouldn't have had a ride, we weren't in the city where I live.

That's why I'm happy, because I know that once I'm independent I'll have even more opportunities because I think I'm good with girls. I know it was a missed opportunity but it doesn't matter, there are many girls and it will be for next time.

 

[manfromitaly]

One thing I didn't say is that when I left the beach with my friend to go away, I stopped to talk to a girl from my city to whom I had written a couple of years before but who didn't want to go out with me.

So I teased her a bit, talked to her a bit and left. When I got home I Instagrammed her, she was drunk too, and I pushed really hard to see us and she had invited me to her place, but guess what, she lives quite far away from me and I couldn't go because I didn't have a means of transport, I tried to ask her to come to me but she would not.

Unfortunately I have lost many opportunities because I don't have a motorbike or car, but soon the situation will change

 

[manfromitaly]

You should have said, "No, I don't give my Instagram to people I don't know" and instead ask for her number.

She asked me for instagram about 15 minutes after the start of the conversation, then we were together for almost an hour, but although I gradually increased the intimacy between us with physical contact, I wasn't lucid enough to take her to another area of the beach.

We stood the whole time in the same spot, we were really attached, her face was 1cm from mine so much so that at one point I tried to kiss her but she wasn't ready so we kept talking and flirting.

I'm convinced that if I was I was more lucid but above all I shouldn't have left, it would have ended well, even one of the guys who was with me told me that it was clear that she was completely taken

 

[manfromitaly]

I totally feel you and I think your overall mindset is "I know I can have good experiences like this with women and thats good enough for me".

It's not really like that, obviously I'm not satisfied, more my thought is that I think I'm good enough that next time under different circumstances I would surely have kissed her and taken her to bed

 

[RazorRambo24]

You should have said, "No, I don't give my Instagram to people I don't know" and instead ask for her number.

In my opinion noneof that matters. since he didn't have a lasting enough impression. girls wont remember little caressing and touches that much especially drunk girls.. you need to give em some action that wakes em up and put them right to sleep lol.

Just like at the club or anywhere, you meet a girl and talk to her or any of that stuff, no one cares the next day.. people are not the same people when they are inebriated as when they are sober.. its like a whole diff mental mindframe and personality.. Thats why you gotta have a lasting impression.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

It boils down to the last minute hesitation, scared the good vibes will end instantly. You have to bust a move, you’ll know instantly if she’s high interest- if she’s not you just saves yourself the few days you wasted obsessing about her to find out you let that one get away.