My lack of dating success is just absolutely ridiculous

[Murk]

That girl is gorgeous, omnomnom

 

[MrWood]

That girl is gorgeous, omnomnom

a pretty face sure
she is already getting fat, and those thighs and ass have nowhere to go but fat
literally in her best/skinny pose... its as good as it gets, that is her plateau

I stand by my comments, I am 52 and she in her 20's, a literal dream right?... naw, pass.

you can have her

 

[switch7]

here's literally what happened

I sat down next to her - she started talking to me immediately. Pulls me to the dance floor, starts grinding up on me. Then her friends come over and she's basically begging me to come with her to the other bar. Not my type, not really cute enough and kinda dumb/trashy



no women can live up to? lots of women can live up to it, they just need to look like this and also be smart and classy

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@bigdave17 is there any chance we can see a pic of you so we can get a better grasp of your problem? Not a dig but it might be that you aren't as good looking as you think, on the other hand it might be that you are very good looking - either way we can give better advice that way because at the moment your whole strategy seems to be based on external stuff, so lets see the external stuff.

 

[bigdave17]

that pic... I wouldnt do her or give her attention a HB8- and falling fast to the wall
at 30, she will get fAT
at 35 she will be a HB7 lookin for betabuks after riding the CC (damaged goods)
at 40 HB6-

my last 40yo+ dates all had better bodies than this 20sumpin

you've never touched a woman anywhere near as attractive as that


She's a fitness model, she's in phenomenal shape. She's also dark skinned. She will be gorgeous at 50 as long as she keeps working out

 

[bigdave17]

a pretty face sure
she is already getting fat, and those thighs and ass have nowhere to go but fat
literally in her best/skinny pose... its as good as it gets, that is her plateau

I stand by my comments, I am 52 and she in her 20's, a literal dream right?... naw, pass.

you can have her

you're insane, she is probably the hottest woman alive

 

[bigdave17]

You honestly believe you deserve someone that looks like the hottest woman alive?

nah i was clearly being facetious

i want the lite version of that. Dark features, cute face, nice toned body. There are multiple women at my gym who are lite version of that

 

[bigdave17]

Bs but you're slippery I'll give you that

she has really beautiful model like facial features

I mostly just want a girl with awesome body and decent cute face

 

[bigdave17]

good lord she's beautiful, I would lick every inch of her

 

[bigdave17]

You're a 7 so you won't get a body like that without massive game. Youre punching way out of your league

huh? I have the male version of body like that and I'm totally happy with a 7 face (although I'm really more like a 7.5 face myself)

and I'm rich

 

[bigdave17]

So in other words you are 7 with zero game chasing nines and you wonder why it's so difficult.

I'm a 7.5 face with a 9 male body and 10/10 fashion sense and I'm rich

I want a woman with a decent face and excellent body

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dude. This is a "woe is me" thread . It's victim mode and not productive.

Get back with us when you've made a pyramid structure with your existing ho3s.

 

[bigdave17]

You're a 7 lol. A woman with an amazing body is light years ahead of you in value.

there is a hot eastern european chick who looks like the lite version of that (7 face instead of 10 face but body is very similar) at my gym. She comes in with a guy who is losing hair and has a receded/horrible jawline (instead of the comic book hero jawline/chin that I have)

another hot black chick who has a body similar to that is dating a chubby Indian dude with glasses

both men aren't even a fraction as attractive as I am. The indian dude makes good money (similar to me) but the other one drives a 10 year old honda so I doubt he makes anything

 

[switch7]

I'm a 7.5 face with a 9 male body and 10/10 fashion sense and I'm rich

I want a woman with a decent face and excellent body

game>looks>social status>wealth

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

There are multiple women at my gym who are lite version of that

F*cking ask them out then! Why aren't you asking them out?

Oh wait, "all the girls in the gym were telling me they wanted me to do them, but at the same time they weren't hot enough/were too trashy/too hot".

If you're so wonderful, go and ask one of these gym girls out. But you're not going to do that. That would mean having the balls to take rejection, and you don't have that.

The reason you don't ask these girls out is because it forces you to confront the reality of your situation rather than your ego.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

They have Game. They are more than an empty shell. You are a 7.

Great! Now that he's a seven he can now focus on developing his game and remove so much attention from looks.

 

[bigdave17]

They have Game. They are more than an empty shell. You are a 7.

so 4/10 men with no money can pull a 7/10 with a 9/10 body and yet a 7.5/10 like me with 9/10 body AND who is rich can't pull the same?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

so 4/10 men with no money can pull a 7/10 with a 9/10 body and yet a 7.5/10 like me with 9/10 body AND who is rich can't pull the same?

Stop with the bullsh*t X/10 rating system. Stop rating yourself and the chicks.

Next time you see a girl you like in the gym, hit on her, go out for drinks and see if you can have sex with her.

It's that simple. Do it. Stop posting here, stop going on about "4/10s pulling 7/10 with 9/10 BLAH BLAH", it's all b*llocks.

Go to your gym. Ask a woman out. If you are as insanely hot as you say, you will be fine.

 

[bigdave17]

F*cking ask them out then! Why aren't you asking them out?

Oh wait, "all the girls in the gym were telling me they wanted me to do them, but at the same time they weren't hot enough/were too trashy/too hot".

If you're so wonderful, go and ask one of these gym girls out. But you're not going to do that. That would mean having the balls to take rejection, and you don't have that.

The reason you don't ask these girls out is because it forces you to confront the reality of your situation rather than your ego.

both those 2 girls are taken

there are a few other hotties but they always wear headphones...I just don't know what to say that wouldn't be extremely awkward

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

both those 2 girls are taken

there are a few other hotties but they always wear headphones...I just don't know what to say that wouldn't be extremely awkward

Well, wait until they're done working out and then a good start is normally "Hi, I'm BigDave. What are you listening to? My workout mix is..."

What's the worst that could happen? It could be extremely awkward. What's the best that could happen? You could get laid with a "hottie".

I get how you find it hard to approach, but at the end of the day, if being "awkward" is your biggest fear...you'll never get anywhere. Who gives a s**t if you have an awkward moment with some woman who won't even be in your life if she's no interested?

The easiest way to fail is to just sit there and not do anything. And that's why you're taking that option - because it's easy.

 

[Von]

Well, wait until they're done working out and then a good start is normally "Hi, I'm BigDave. What are you listening to? My workout mix is..."

What's the worst that could happen? It could be extremely awkward. What's the best that could happen? You could get laid with a "hottie".

I get how you find it hard to approach, but at the end of the day, if being "awkward" is your biggest fear...you'll never get anywhere. Who gives a s**t if you have an awkward moment with some woman who won't even be in your life if she's no interested?

The easiest way to fail is to just sit there and not do anything. And that's why you're taking that option - because it's easy.

I've meet 2 girls at my gym... using this and a few variation: "hey I saw you workout, your workout intense, good job" .

They all laughed and started to take interest in me