"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My Kid's Becoming a Natural

Desdinova

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So today was Father's day. I'm going to skip over the attempt my ex made at ruining the day when I picked him up for this extra day. Things must always come at a price, and sometimes I wonder if it's worth the hassle. Today it was, but let's just say 5hit's gonna be flying tomorrow...

I took my kid to "family karaoke" night. It was pretty dead there which was fine. I played a bit of pool with him and signed us up for a couple of songs he knew. Since this was his first time, I went up to help carry him if he needed it. He didn't need me for very much :D

The kid's 7 years old. He can sing pretty good for his age. He can read all the words on the screen. He can keep a beat. He's easily better than many of the people I see get up and sing. But what got me the most was his confidence. Dude grabs the microphone, and he's a friggin' natural with it. "Hello Everybody! This is a song called "Here Comes The Sun" and he just goes to town singing The Beatles. After he's done, the crowd claps for him and he says "Thank you very much" and takes a bow.

This 5hit absolutely blew me away. The kid's confident and he's a natural leader. He's gonna need a pretty damn big stick to beat the women off him when he's older.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm sure your attitude has molded him to a point, i'm glad he's not taking your ex wife too seriously. Gratz...
 

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That's great :) Puberty is going to be the real test though I guess.
 
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