“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My journey to a better me:)

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So after reading the chronicles of BPH i have decided to start my own journal where i ca have people give me input on what i can do better or how i can improve. i decided that i want improve in to a better me.
to start off, some about myself.
i am 5'7.. weight about 140lbs...athletic..i have a sexy 6 pack..i think i have a good built body. the big thing in my life is soccer..it has been a way to get my name known around the school. i am sure that this coming school year i will play varsity soccer and do really well. i know this sounds weird but i am really not interested in having a gf or getting laid like most the guys here.. i am not saying that i wont ever.. just that thats not my main goal at this time. my biggest problem right now is that i really dont have a social group. i need some help on this. sometimes i feel like i do not fit with anyone.
i do really well in school which is something that gets the attention of other ppl in my classes. i usually get only As and Bs.
i want to start off by having female friends and being able to get in to their social group and hang out another time other than during school time.

some more about me. about a year ago i started reading on this site and i liked it.. it was nothing like the other sites. then i soon got a gf and kinda left the site because i thought i was done. now that i am single i see that i am not done
that there is more work to be done on myself and i am willing to do that.


Day 1
so today i am going to the zoo with my family so i dont think any chance for me to practice anything other than having fun with my family.
probably will update tonight
ask anything that you guys think will help to give me good avice.
BTW i forgot to say that i workout too and lift weights. more on that later
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In my school we have an Honor Society for students who do well in school. Part of the deal is that you have to tutor so many hours to be able to get in. The main reason everyone wants to get in the Honor Society is that it looks great on an application and the teacher will give you a recommendation letter for anything.
Anyways try tutoring because so many kids need help you can stay pretty busy. If you know a girl who is struggling in a class you do well in you can just offer to help her now and then after school.
Most girls will accept your help immediately. What happens to me is that they think I offer to help them because I like them (which is usually not the case) so they think they are getting "attention" then when I don't it makes them go crazy for you. I don't know if that's what you want, but just by helping someone you can usually become good friends.
 
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at my school they have that too..couldnt do it this year though..and yea i just want friends like that but dont want them to think i am trying to get with them..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go out and say Hi to people, as funny as that sounds it breaks the ice that may be keeping this person from approaching you. If you play soccer you should already have a few friends out of your teammates. Just be a fun person, be outgoing and mess around in class and enjoy yourself.

One of my best friends started out as being a new kid in my school, very quiet though not shy. I started cracking jokes about the teacher, the subject, and watnot. Stuff like that.

It's just a natural progression as long as the person is receptive, and most people will be.

Good luck with your journal!
 
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i have a lot of friends but i dont have like that close group of friends..i am fun..i know cuz i always making ppl smile and laugh..
 
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another end of the week and not much to report..i feel like i need to go out and meet new ppl..any advice on this..
 
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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
another end of the week and not much to report..i feel like i need to go out and meet new ppl..any advice on this..
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then maybe u should go out and meet new ppl by going to a party, I always make new friends at parties
 
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lili19771 said:
then maybe u should go out and meet new ppl by going to a party, I always make new friends at parties
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I can testify that you have to make an effort to be social, and you wont make close friends easily. However, ITS TOALLY WORTH IT! :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hangout outside of school. Everyone has plenty of friends in school, but many people lack that tight knit outside of school. Have some friends over your house. Or get a bunch of people to go bowling.
The key is to invite kids from different social circles so you become someone who can enter any of them and kind of be the bridge between everyone.
 
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i see wat you are saying..school is almost over but i trying to do that now..i usually stay after school with my friends and workout..
 
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i have been reading pooks antidump posts..not much to report..just cant wait for school to be over..
 
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