Ever since this year started I have been constantly improving. I've gone from a timid, needy, shy kid to one thats more shameless and confident, I have befriended multiple girls. Although recently, I have hit a slum and my game has diminished. I can't open girls that aren't in my classes, I start caring about what people think etc. Worst of all, I'm a junior in highschool and still haven't even made out with a girl. On the weekends I usually have nothing to do and just end up lounging at my friends house playing xbox or something. I don't get invited to parties since I'm hardly friends with any of the party kids and even up staying at home doing nothing while everyone else is partying and having fun. Now I've been told I'm an attractive guy but I just don't know what to do to expand my social boundaries, and start going to parties and ****. It seems that I'm so limited because I dont have that many connections with high status people.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
My journey has hit a slum
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jack Wealthy
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Talk to them, be nice but not in a suckholey way and they will like you. Don't care what people think, entertain yourself, do what you think is fun and try and make people feel good about themselves. Be loud, take iniative and help everyone have fun. People will love you and invite you to their events. Stay positive 
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
One thing people forget, is thats its not all about girls... the best way to met girls is be friends with guys, make friends with guys.
Honestly if i didnt have the bunch of mates i had i wouldn't get half the ***** i get now.
Jack is right be one of those people that helps everyone have fun.
Im its not just the high status people that go to parties it can't be just the kids who think there awesome there otherwise it'd be pretty small ****ing party.
If you can make friends with just one person who gets invited to parties you can make friends at that party easy, people more opening to making friends with a bit of alcohol especially if your making a lot of fun happen. this websites got all the advice man, read away.
But for a start stop giving a **** what people think, a few years from now they'll all be gone.
Honestly if i didnt have the bunch of mates i had i wouldn't get half the ***** i get now.
Jack is right be one of those people that helps everyone have fun.
Im its not just the high status people that go to parties it can't be just the kids who think there awesome there otherwise it'd be pretty small ****ing party.
If you can make friends with just one person who gets invited to parties you can make friends at that party easy, people more opening to making friends with a bit of alcohol especially if your making a lot of fun happen. this websites got all the advice man, read away.
But for a start stop giving a **** what people think, a few years from now they'll all be gone.