Ever since this year started I have been constantly improving. I've gone from a timid, needy, shy kid to one thats more shameless and confident, I have befriended multiple girls. Although recently, I have hit a slum and my game has diminished. I can't open girls that aren't in my classes, I start caring about what people think etc. Worst of all, I'm a junior in highschool and still haven't even made out with a girl. On the weekends I usually have nothing to do and just end up lounging at my friends house playing xbox or something. I don't get invited to parties since I'm hardly friends with any of the party kids and even up staying at home doing nothing while everyone else is partying and having fun. Now I've been told I'm an attractive guy but I just don't know what to do to expand my social boundaries, and start going to parties and ****. It seems that I'm so limited because I dont have that many connections with high status people.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My journey has hit a slum
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jack Wealthy
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Talk to them, be nice but not in a suckholey way and they will like you. Don't care what people think, entertain yourself, do what you think is fun and try and make people feel good about themselves. Be loud, take iniative and help everyone have fun. People will love you and invite you to their events. Stay positive 
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
One thing people forget, is thats its not all about girls... the best way to met girls is be friends with guys, make friends with guys.
Honestly if i didnt have the bunch of mates i had i wouldn't get half the ***** i get now.
Jack is right be one of those people that helps everyone have fun.
Im its not just the high status people that go to parties it can't be just the kids who think there awesome there otherwise it'd be pretty small ****ing party.
If you can make friends with just one person who gets invited to parties you can make friends at that party easy, people more opening to making friends with a bit of alcohol especially if your making a lot of fun happen. this websites got all the advice man, read away.
But for a start stop giving a **** what people think, a few years from now they'll all be gone.
Honestly if i didnt have the bunch of mates i had i wouldn't get half the ***** i get now.
Jack is right be one of those people that helps everyone have fun.
Im its not just the high status people that go to parties it can't be just the kids who think there awesome there otherwise it'd be pretty small ****ing party.
If you can make friends with just one person who gets invited to parties you can make friends at that party easy, people more opening to making friends with a bit of alcohol especially if your making a lot of fun happen. this websites got all the advice man, read away.
But for a start stop giving a **** what people think, a few years from now they'll all be gone.