"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My Journal : Journey to DJ

A_BetterMAN

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Okay after reading lemond's post about starting a journal , I thought it would be a great idea to start my own.

I'm a 16 year old guy,have been on dates with gals but most of my relationships dont go too far except for the odd times. My current sucess is about 1 date in every 1/2 months I feel it is a sucess for me because when I was 15 ,I knew nothing however i know theres lot of room to improve

I've been improving but the rate is slow, I can now chat up girls at locations like at tuition, school, maybe even gym, but only if we have something in common. What I cant do is approachin on the street and if by the end of this journal i can do that , I would be most pleased.

Heres what I plan to do , Chat with 10 new chicks in the next week , I'm having a 1 week break from school at the moment and this is a good chance for me. I would like ur comments on how this can be done , i know it is all in the mind and once i break through, which I will ! :) It will be easier and easier.

Anyway going to the gym now, later
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well day one, approaches none, however talked to a few new chicks through introductions and flirted with them a little ... nothing much for today.
 

A_BetterMAN

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ok day 2 was alright... approached a gal , i knew her older sister though.

So when I went up and asked for her name she said it was XXX , XXX was the name of her sister! she said it was spelt differently though.

Weird thing is that I later i found out her name was YYY and she said she was joking... also the last time I met her before I introduced myself , she was giving lots of eye contact with me but after the approach on that day , she seemed aloof..

Please comment 45 views and not 1 reply. Did i screw it by approaching too late - too nice guy ?
 
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