"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My Journal : Journey to DJ

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Okay after reading lemond's post about starting a journal , I thought it would be a great idea to start my own.

I'm a 16 year old guy,have been on dates with gals but most of my relationships dont go too far except for the odd times. My current sucess is about 1 date in every 1/2 months I feel it is a sucess for me because when I was 15 ,I knew nothing however i know theres lot of room to improve

I've been improving but the rate is slow, I can now chat up girls at locations like at tuition, school, maybe even gym, but only if we have something in common. What I cant do is approachin on the street and if by the end of this journal i can do that , I would be most pleased.

Heres what I plan to do , Chat with 10 new chicks in the next week , I'm having a 1 week break from school at the moment and this is a good chance for me. I would like ur comments on how this can be done , i know it is all in the mind and once i break through, which I will ! :) It will be easier and easier.

Anyway going to the gym now, later
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well day one, approaches none, however talked to a few new chicks through introductions and flirted with them a little ... nothing much for today.
 
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ok day 2 was alright... approached a gal , i knew her older sister though.

So when I went up and asked for her name she said it was XXX , XXX was the name of her sister! she said it was spelt differently though.

Weird thing is that I later i found out her name was YYY and she said she was joking... also the last time I met her before I introduced myself , she was giving lots of eye contact with me but after the approach on that day , she seemed aloof..

Please comment 45 views and not 1 reply. Did i screw it by approaching too late - too nice guy ?
 
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