Sir Lancelot
Don Juan
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So this girl asks me to Tolo, a dance that our school has in March. I've known her for a year or so now, she's hot, and a friendly person overall (used to be...). I'm pretty sure she's a sunshine girl, since she'll act attracted one day, and then act like she's not the next. So anyway, SHE asked ME to the dance, so I figured there had to be some sort of interest. Fast forward to the date.
She was pretty unexcited to see me when we met beforehand, overall. I didn't get any vibe from her at all. Basically no signs of attraction whatsoever. I knew that the dance probably wouldn't go so well.
Guess what she did as soon as we got to the dance? Ran away from me. She actually ran away. I was shocked. She ran into a big crowd of people, and I was left there feeling like a complete tool. I played her game of hide-and-seek for a while and tried searching for her but then gave up. I honestly didn't know what to do in this situation, so I just found some friends and danced with them. They were of course feeling really bad for me (which made me feel even worse), since they were all with their dates and mine ran off somewhere. I danced with a few girls that I knew and started to have a good time. Then I found my "date", finally (about 30 min. later). I say "So... where've you been?", she didn't really give me a straight answer. She just pulled me into the crowd and we grinded for a while. Then she ran off again. At this point I was pretty pissed off. My friends (who didn't go to the dance) called me to check on my situation, and said they were going to a party. There was only about 10 minutes left until the dance was over, and I was pretty pissed at my date so I had them pick me up. I found my date before I left (out of sheer luck) and told her that I was leaving, and that I wasn't going to hang out tonight. She just kind of glared and walked off.
I left the dance with some friends and we went to that party. She calls me on my cell phone, and proceeds to completely b**ch me out. I was like wtf, what did you expect me to do, hang around after you treated me like a little *****? She hung up on me, then called me back again a few minutes later. She started b**ching again so I hung up on her. She tried calling back a few times, but I didn't answer it. I wound up having a good time that night. These girls at the party were totally into me, and I almost forgot about my date for a while.
OK, so come monday at school (two days after the dance), things are AWKWARD as hell. She told everybody that I ditched her, and tried to make me come off as a complete jerk. I talked to a few of the dudes that have taken her to dances in the past, and they tell me that she's always like that at the dances, and that they just put up with it. I'm like wtf, why would you put up with that BS? What's the use of taking her to the dance if you're only going to see her for 5 minutes total? I talked to a natural DJ friend of mine and he said that I did what any self-respecting guy would do.
She tries to talk to me on Monday, she said that she didn't want anything to be negative between us. I was completely cold to her. The only words that I said to her were that she treated me like a tool and that I didn't appreciate it at all. She played dumb and said something like "What do you mean?", I just told her that I didn't want to talk about it anymore and then went into a different room. I was still pissed about the dance.
Some of her friends told me the next day that she cried after I walked away, and that I should talk to her.
Anyway, now its friday. I've cooled off a bit from that weekend, and I figure that I might as well try to make things better (this might've been a mistake). I saw her walking to the parking lot right as school ended, so I walked up to her and tried talking to her. She wouldn't let me. She just completely WENT OFF on me, she almost went neurotic. She was spouting BS like she was a good date, and that I had no reason to ditch her. When she was busy going psycho on me I just said, "God, I don't even know why I tried talking to you. This is hopeless." And then walked off.
So anyway, this is just kind of a rant. I'm sorry this is so long, I just really needed to vent.
If you guys were in my shoes, what would you have done? I think it might've been a better move if I had talked to her at the dance about disrespecting me, instead of just leaving her. Right now I'm completely confused.
EDIT: Just to clarify, I DON'T want to get with this girl. Way too much of a headache. I would like to just become friends though, but now I don't think that'll happen.
She was pretty unexcited to see me when we met beforehand, overall. I didn't get any vibe from her at all. Basically no signs of attraction whatsoever. I knew that the dance probably wouldn't go so well.
Guess what she did as soon as we got to the dance? Ran away from me. She actually ran away. I was shocked. She ran into a big crowd of people, and I was left there feeling like a complete tool. I played her game of hide-and-seek for a while and tried searching for her but then gave up. I honestly didn't know what to do in this situation, so I just found some friends and danced with them. They were of course feeling really bad for me (which made me feel even worse), since they were all with their dates and mine ran off somewhere. I danced with a few girls that I knew and started to have a good time. Then I found my "date", finally (about 30 min. later). I say "So... where've you been?", she didn't really give me a straight answer. She just pulled me into the crowd and we grinded for a while. Then she ran off again. At this point I was pretty pissed off. My friends (who didn't go to the dance) called me to check on my situation, and said they were going to a party. There was only about 10 minutes left until the dance was over, and I was pretty pissed at my date so I had them pick me up. I found my date before I left (out of sheer luck) and told her that I was leaving, and that I wasn't going to hang out tonight. She just kind of glared and walked off.
I left the dance with some friends and we went to that party. She calls me on my cell phone, and proceeds to completely b**ch me out. I was like wtf, what did you expect me to do, hang around after you treated me like a little *****? She hung up on me, then called me back again a few minutes later. She started b**ching again so I hung up on her. She tried calling back a few times, but I didn't answer it. I wound up having a good time that night. These girls at the party were totally into me, and I almost forgot about my date for a while.
OK, so come monday at school (two days after the dance), things are AWKWARD as hell. She told everybody that I ditched her, and tried to make me come off as a complete jerk. I talked to a few of the dudes that have taken her to dances in the past, and they tell me that she's always like that at the dances, and that they just put up with it. I'm like wtf, why would you put up with that BS? What's the use of taking her to the dance if you're only going to see her for 5 minutes total? I talked to a natural DJ friend of mine and he said that I did what any self-respecting guy would do.
She tries to talk to me on Monday, she said that she didn't want anything to be negative between us. I was completely cold to her. The only words that I said to her were that she treated me like a tool and that I didn't appreciate it at all. She played dumb and said something like "What do you mean?", I just told her that I didn't want to talk about it anymore and then went into a different room. I was still pissed about the dance.
Some of her friends told me the next day that she cried after I walked away, and that I should talk to her.
Anyway, now its friday. I've cooled off a bit from that weekend, and I figure that I might as well try to make things better (this might've been a mistake). I saw her walking to the parking lot right as school ended, so I walked up to her and tried talking to her. She wouldn't let me. She just completely WENT OFF on me, she almost went neurotic. She was spouting BS like she was a good date, and that I had no reason to ditch her. When she was busy going psycho on me I just said, "God, I don't even know why I tried talking to you. This is hopeless." And then walked off.
So anyway, this is just kind of a rant. I'm sorry this is so long, I just really needed to vent.
If you guys were in my shoes, what would you have done? I think it might've been a better move if I had talked to her at the dance about disrespecting me, instead of just leaving her. Right now I'm completely confused.
EDIT: Just to clarify, I DON'T want to get with this girl. Way too much of a headache. I would like to just become friends though, but now I don't think that'll happen.
