"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My inner game is a little off

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Times are kinda funky for me right now.

The good news:

I passed the 2nd schoolyear. Only 2 more years and I can be a civil engineer.

The bad news:

I'm broke. I run through money fast. I can spend $1000 in 1 week.
I have been drinking WAY too much since the schoolyear finished. I'm also losing face with the personnel in the bar, which sucks because there is a nice babe working there.
I'm not hitting the gym as frequently as I should.
I have no plates.
My brother got admitted to a mental hospital again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chamber36 said:
Times are kinda funky for me right now.

The good news:

I passed the 2nd schoolyear. Only 2 more years and I can be a civil engineer.
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Cool. :up:

The bad news:

I'm broke. I run through money fast. I can spend $1000 in 1 week.
I have been drinking WAY too much since the schoolyear finished. I'm also losing face with the personnel in the bar, which sucks because there is a nice babe working there.
I'm not hitting the gym as frequently as I should.
I have no plates.
My brother got admitted to a mental hospital again.
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WOW. So,you're.....

Broke...
Can blow through a thousand dollars a week on NOTHING...
You drink too much...
Stopped going to the gym and exercising...
And you have a loved one who just recently got admitted to a mental hospital...


ALL THAT.....yet the title of this thread is,"My inner game is a little off." Hmmm.

You know....with ALL THAT going on in your life right now.....maybe inner game shouldn't be your top priority at the moment.


Just sayin'.
 
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ya.

Well the plus side of being broke is that I can work on myself instead of spending cash.

I can practice playing guitar, clean the house, hit the gym, find a job and work on getting my driver's license.

Inner game ain't unimportant by the way. There's no way to get through life if your inner game isn't positive. When I do look at things summarized that way though, I do think I'm ultimately doing fine.

And taking a time off from drinking will do me good as well.
 
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