Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My inner game is a little off

Chamber36

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Times are kinda funky for me right now.

The good news:

I passed the 2nd schoolyear. Only 2 more years and I can be a civil engineer.

The bad news:

I'm broke. I run through money fast. I can spend $1000 in 1 week.
I have been drinking WAY too much since the schoolyear finished. I'm also losing face with the personnel in the bar, which sucks because there is a nice babe working there.
I'm not hitting the gym as frequently as I should.
I have no plates.
My brother got admitted to a mental hospital again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chamber36 said:
Times are kinda funky for me right now.

The good news:

I passed the 2nd schoolyear. Only 2 more years and I can be a civil engineer.
Cool. :up:

The bad news:

I'm broke. I run through money fast. I can spend $1000 in 1 week.
I have been drinking WAY too much since the schoolyear finished. I'm also losing face with the personnel in the bar, which sucks because there is a nice babe working there.
I'm not hitting the gym as frequently as I should.
I have no plates.
My brother got admitted to a mental hospital again.
WOW. So,you're.....

Broke...
Can blow through a thousand dollars a week on NOTHING...
You drink too much...
Stopped going to the gym and exercising...
And you have a loved one who just recently got admitted to a mental hospital...


ALL THAT.....yet the title of this thread is,"My inner game is a little off." Hmmm.

You know....with ALL THAT going on in your life right now.....maybe inner game shouldn't be your top priority at the moment.


Just sayin'.
 

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ya.

Well the plus side of being broke is that I can work on myself instead of spending cash.

I can practice playing guitar, clean the house, hit the gym, find a job and work on getting my driver's license.

Inner game ain't unimportant by the way. There's no way to get through life if your inner game isn't positive. When I do look at things summarized that way though, I do think I'm ultimately doing fine.

And taking a time off from drinking will do me good as well.
 
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