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My inner game is a little off

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Times are kinda funky for me right now.

The good news:

I passed the 2nd schoolyear. Only 2 more years and I can be a civil engineer.

The bad news:

I'm broke. I run through money fast. I can spend $1000 in 1 week.
I have been drinking WAY too much since the schoolyear finished. I'm also losing face with the personnel in the bar, which sucks because there is a nice babe working there.
I'm not hitting the gym as frequently as I should.
I have no plates.
My brother got admitted to a mental hospital again.
 

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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chamber36 said:
Times are kinda funky for me right now.

The good news:

I passed the 2nd schoolyear. Only 2 more years and I can be a civil engineer.
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Cool. :up:

The bad news:

I'm broke. I run through money fast. I can spend $1000 in 1 week.
I have been drinking WAY too much since the schoolyear finished. I'm also losing face with the personnel in the bar, which sucks because there is a nice babe working there.
I'm not hitting the gym as frequently as I should.
I have no plates.
My brother got admitted to a mental hospital again.
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WOW. So,you're.....

Broke...
Can blow through a thousand dollars a week on NOTHING...
You drink too much...
Stopped going to the gym and exercising...
And you have a loved one who just recently got admitted to a mental hospital...


ALL THAT.....yet the title of this thread is,"My inner game is a little off." Hmmm.

You know....with ALL THAT going on in your life right now.....maybe inner game shouldn't be your top priority at the moment.


Just sayin'.
 
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ya.

Well the plus side of being broke is that I can work on myself instead of spending cash.

I can practice playing guitar, clean the house, hit the gym, find a job and work on getting my driver's license.

Inner game ain't unimportant by the way. There's no way to get through life if your inner game isn't positive. When I do look at things summarized that way though, I do think I'm ultimately doing fine.

And taking a time off from drinking will do me good as well.
 
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