"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my inconsistent behaviour..weak inner game?

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what can i do about my inconsistent behaviour

there are days when i would be all fired up, c&f through the roof, suave, and everything comes to me natrually,

but there are also days when i don't feel as confident, and in order to disguise my weakness i keep a cold face and no facial expressions, give off little or no reactions, and usually this scares off girls with high interest levels

but then again i suppose it is better to be a statue than a needy whimpering afc.

any suggestions?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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As you work on your inner game, your moods will fluctuate a bit. You need to keep bettering yourself and revamping your personality. It will take time for the new you to "stick" but eventually, the days where your confidence is down will be few and far between.. but remember, you're human; We all have days like that at some point.
It's all about connecting with that deep seeded belief system and sense of self and once you tap into that part, permanently, you'll be forever a changed man. It takes time. Years, even.

Go read my thread about comfort Zones in the tips section; that one deals with this kind of growth and taking small steps to accomplish it is the only way to permamnently change yourself so that you don't bounce back to your old self.
 
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