my hb9.5 Oneitis told me that she "needs time to think"

[KillaCam]

Girls play games. Guys wonder why girls play games. Girls win the games because of the guys wondering why they play games.

It's a cycle of repititiveness. The more you ponder, think and contemplate, the more successful she is.

Good luck

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Okay Skip, if you really want to get with this girl this what you do.

1) First, absolutely forget that this will end up being some kind of bf/gf LTR kind-of-thing. It is short-term every now and again hook-ups and that is it.

2) Related to the first, get control of your oneitis. You can not game a gaming 9.5er if you have oneitis. it is short-term occasional hook-ups and she must know that you understand the secret society that you and her have.

3) Limit your interactions with her. If you keep texting and talking to her every day, you will just end up being one of her orbiters (like the AFC ex-bf is now. She was never getting back with him under any circumstances despite what she told you. She lied about that.)

4) Spontaneous hook-ups are what keep 9.5ers interested. They don't want a relationship with any guy unless he has a million bucks and 9 inches (if you are not that guy then you are spontaneous hook-up guy only.)

5) She fvcked you a few times already so she will fvck you again if the circumstances are right. Those circumstances are spontaneous ones (last ones awake at a party, she phones you at 9:00 pm, you accidently bump into each other at a club, no planned dates for more than 24 hours in advance.)

6) You have to be the ultimate safe discreet hook-up guy. This isn't going to happen when you are in a group, you should not tell anyone that you and her are seeing each other, the AFC bf should not know, you are her are sneaking around.)

7) Keep going with the romantic talk and the ****y and funny stuff. You actually seem to have this part of the game down. Nothing serious and keep her interest peaked with interesting she-has-never-done-this-before stuff. But remember number 3, very limited interactions, most of them initiated by her.

8) The most important one. You have to sex her up really good. 9.5s are not looking for regular sex or even good sex. They only want mind-blowing sex with lots of variation (including **** and sex in unusual and even public places.)

Have some fun. If you do this right, you will be doing her once a week or once every second week.

That is the prescription for the game-playing 9.5.

 

[wayword]

"But you have never ever felt it like you feel it right now

I'm closing off inside and oh it's only just started but you

can't be close enough unless I'm feeling your heart beat"

Save dat drama fo her mama. Learn to just ignore this type of vague psychobabble that girls love spewing out...

Cuz, the minute you start overanalyzing that shyt is the minute you've lost your frame and start getting sucked into hers.

 

[skip2mylou781]

UPDATE: I think about her alot, but she still does not want to see me (no contact from her), and the last thing she had said to me is that she misses me and wants to see me but CANT because she "doesnt want it to **** with her head" and shes "in her own world right now"

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****KKKKKKKKKKKK HER

should I try to make her jealous? I still got her on my mind, i got "player syndrome"

 

[BlackJackal]

here is the email she wrote me - who can analyze this? (i saw her for 3 weeks, saw her about 7 times, fvcked her 3 times)

i want to be realistic as well. and the reality is, that i do care about you, no so much that infact it scared me. but so much that maybe one day it could. (not a bad thing)

i know you dont understand my reasoning for what i want. and i am sorry for that. i know how i feel about you. and i know how i feel about danny. and while i do love him, i'm no longer in love with him. i did not accept that ring, and i never plan to.

if you want to just pick up and move on, then please do so. it is only my fault if that is the case. i would never expect you to just wait around for me, we never got that serious. and i know just becasue you wont come crying to me and buy me expensive things in hope of forgiveness, does not mean you dont care. i would not expect anything like that from you in the first place.

i was very happy, and you were a BIG part of that, and i thank you for making me feel so. and it is something i truly do not want to loose, but like i said i need this time. so please dont wait for me, i would not want to. besides, i know you wont. but there honestly has to be a reason why i felt the way i did with you so soon, and while i cant put my finger on it, i know it means something. i think that is why i dont think i will loose you completly, but if i do, so be it, MY FAULT!

so thank you for trying to understand me the best you could. and thank you for making me feel so beautiful and special. you were one of the very few men that i know that could make me feel that way! you were always so amazing to me!

Is'nt this kinda ass backwards? Why would you buy her gifts (exspensive gifts at that) and BEG HER for forgivness? She broke it off with you! Women are crazy man I tell ya...lol.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Is'nt this kinda ass backwards? Why would you buy her gifts (exspensive gifts at that) and BEG HER for forgivness? She broke it off with you! Women are crazy man I tell ya...lol.

oh thats cuz thats what her AFC ex bf was doing, and in my email to her I told her just cuz im not gonna do that, for her to not think i dont care about her

but yes, even the best women are crazy on the inside (and i thought this one was on of the best too!)

 

[ClassAct]

any updates dude?

 

[skip2mylou781]

UPDATE:

she is BACK with her ex, and she did it behind my back while telling me that she misses me and cares about me.

i am SO pissed no one even has any idea!!!! i seriously wanna just go ****in kill HIM and ***** slap her into fvckin europe!!!

WOWOW i cannot believe this SERIOUSLY

everyone on this thread who said to instantly next her - you were all right, and i was 100% wrong

 

[Docs]

That's life.

 

[S1NN3R]

UPDATE:WOWOW i cannot believe this SERIOUSLY

I can. You played it like a chump. If you wanted her to stay with YOU, you should have given her some sort of reason to stay with you, but instead you pulled back and gave her nothing. And all because you wanted to maintain some antiquated and abstract ideal that because you're the male, that you shouldn't have to do anything to get what you want. You might think that doing so somehow preserved your masculinity and image, but he's got the girl you wanted. Oops. So now you're going to be right back where you started, spamming dozens of average looking teenagers on MySpace, hoping for a bite.

Seriously man, learn something here. The information is available, you just don't want to look at it.

 

[Last Man Standing]

"I need time to think" translates to "At this time I'm on another dude's scrotum and he is on mine - please be a fool and stick around in case this current pleasure doesn't last"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[skip2mylou781]

I can. You played it like a chump. If you wanted her to stay with YOU, you should have given her some sort of reason to stay with you, but instead you pulled back and gave her nothing. And all because you wanted to maintain some antiquated and abstract ideal that because you're the male, that you shouldn't have to do anything to get what you want. You might think that doing so somehow preserved your masculinity and image, but he's got the girl you wanted. Oops. So now you're going to be right back where you started, spamming dozens of average looking teenagers on MySpace, hoping for a bite.

Seriously man, learn something here. The information is available, you just don't want to look at it.

her ex won her back by crying, buying her a ring, and calling her 100 times........things id like to consider pretty WUSSY like dont u think?

 

[ye yeah]

i agree,why would you wanna be THAT wussy,and give up all your power on the odd chance she'd get back with you,in his sitiution she happened to get back,but they'll break up again you watch

 

[BlackJackal]

To be honest, you shouldn't be mad at either one of them. As far as the girl is concerned, she just doing what girls do, thats just how the game goes. The ex was acting the way you would've act if you didn't know better. Which is the point, that you knew better, and you should have cut your losses the monent she started bull****in.

I say all this with respect, I got nothin against so I'm not coming down on you. With that said, you should be more mad at yourself. Hell I saw the outcome of her getting back with her ex a year ago..lol. At least you poled her before it happened, so your time wasn't completely wasted.

 

[wayword]

well, WOW jsut WOW - I feel alot better right now because we talked for a while, and she wants NOTHING to do with her ex, she hates him, he might love her but hes just crazy, "he could buy me the whole ****in jewelry store and id never be with him again"...........basically, i am HAPPY that she is deffinitely not gonna be with her ex.

There's an old Sioux proverb about women: "Read squaw’s footprints - not her lips."

In other words, you follow a bych's ACTIONS, not WORDS (which are all BULLSHYT).

Let's see what her actions say here:
1) Spends more time with her ex
2) While ignoring you for "time to think"

Any questions?

 

[CraigMack]

ive been in that boat many times too.......and every other time, i acted AFC'ish and told her i need her and want to be with her - none of those times worked

so this time, im doing 100% different thing, and i HATE playing this stupid game, because I actually DO want to be with her and only her

What happened to being a Don Juan and dating several hb9.5's? Is your education in this system only as good until you find a really hot girl and then you put her on a pedistal to worship?

You put it out there that she has to make a choice and you walked out. Let it be that way. Don't put it out there if your not willing to back it up, else you well end up punked out like the AFC boyfriend who is crying and sniveling.

I do hope you are talking to 10 other girls right now and not sitting at home all alone in the dark.

 

[skip2mylou781]

yea i do got other girls going........simple fact is, they jsut arent as gorgeous as her. She was 9.5/10, and all others I got going are 6/10 - 8/10

 

[S1NN3R]

her ex won her back by crying, buying her a ring, and calling her 100 times........things id like to consider pretty WUSSY like dont u think?

I'm not saying you should have acted like that to try to keep her, but damn man, this isn't a pissing contest about who was less "wussy", it was about getting the girl. He may have acted like a total pansy, but your complete and total inaction let him get away with it. So congratulations, you're more masculine than him. But he's the one banging her everynight now. Still think you won?

 

[rrrrr]

I'm not saying you should have acted like that to try to keep her, but damn man, this isn't a pissing contest about who was less "wussy", it was about getting the girl. He may have acted like a total pansy, but your complete and total inaction let him get away with it. So congratulations, you're more masculine than him. But he's the one banging her everynight now. Still think you won?

So what was he supposed to do? He said every time he showed a girl lots of attention in this case, he lost.... so, he tried backing off.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

So what was he supposed to do? He said every time he showed a girl lots of attention in this case, he lost.... so, he tried backing off.

Quality over quantity.