“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My hands are constantly cold.

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My hands are so cold right now. I have been inside for hours, and the rest of my body is nice and warm. This is how my hands have felt all winter. I try to rub them together and even sit on them to warm them up, but they get cold quickly. Anyone know what the reason might be for this? I am a little underweight, but I dont know if that could have anything to do with it. Damn this is annoying. I dont want to wear gloves inside. If I try to initiate kino on a girl by touching her or shaking her hand she will not be pleased by the fact that it feels like I have been holding ice in my hands. Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Do you exercise much? Sounds like you have poor circulation. I had this same problem for a couple winters; my hands were always cold and pale and sometimes I'd lose blood flow to a finger completely and it would turn white/yellow and numb. Anyways that was before I started working out, now I always have very warm hands with a nice red/tan complexion.
 

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Yeah I exercise 3-4 times a week... i just lift though, I never do cardio.... I wonder if a little cardio would help....
 

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Same thing happens to me, except when I rest my hand on a desk or table, then it sweats like crazy!
 

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I eat pretty healthy. I am a vegetarian. I eat alot of soy protein, I eat alot of fruits, good amount of veggies, lots of breads & pastas. I also get a little dairy.
 

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Originally posted by Zelemont
I eat pretty healthy. I am a vegetarian. I eat alot of soy protein, I eat alot of fruits, good amount of veggies, lots of breads & pastas. I also get a little dairy.
I'm betting it's your diet that's the problem then. Humans aren't meant to be vegetarians, and even though it's possible to be very healthy as a vegetarian it can be a bit tricky to get all the right nutrients without meat products. Are you taking multivitamins regularly? If not, try that. Also go to a healthfood store and get some ginkgo tablets and follow the directions on the bottle. Ginkgo is supposed to help bloodflow including microcirculation in capillaries, amoung other things.

If all that doesn't work, get a check up at the doctor.
 

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe
You diabetic?
I don't beilieve so....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
I'm betting it's your diet that's the problem then. Humans aren't meant to be vegetariansB]


That's debatable :) I'm not looking for a debate though. I ran out of my multivitamins about a week ago, and my hands were cold while i had been taking them daily. I'll have to look into those ginko tablets... Ive never tried those.
 

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Originally posted by Zelemont
That's debatable
IT IS NOT! You think cromagnon was a goddamn vegan? You're F'ing with your body, and now it's getting back at you, simple as that.
 

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i wouldn't think you'd have "poor circulation" as you are young for one thing. they do warm up if you are doing exercise?

are your feet cold as well?

some people just have have cold hands naturally. you may just genetically have more vasoconstriction in your hands esp. if you are getting anxious or nervous and thus have colder hands.

i wouldn't believe this vitamin/ginkgo stuff. yes vitamins are essential but too much gets attributed to them or lack thereof.. you're vegetarian yes but sounds like you're getting complete source of nutrition.

Also, if you are a smoker i'd quit as this is proven to be a vasoconstrictor.

as for your problem with girls, screw it just kino them just the same. sounds like you're letting this problem get to you.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Could be a sign of a hypoactive thyroid gland (if I remember correctly)
 

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I get cold hands a lot as well and I believe it is because I touch cold things.
 

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most people (yeah... ok... more like ALL of them) totally neglect and forget about the muscles that work your hands. there are a few exercises you should be doing that not only increases hand strength, but warms you up (exercise increases blood flow, thus making you warmer, right? works with your hands too).

get a "stress ball" or fill a deflated balloon with sand. squeeze that sucker when ever you have a change. but, on the flip side, get a medium thickness rubber band and put it around your fingertips (hand in a cone-like position) then stretch your fingers outwards. this works the muscles in the back of your hands.

rubber band stretches are excellent for people who type all day or work with their hands. it actually helps eleviate carpal tunnel syndrom. as a massage therapist, i do them to keep my hands from getting fatigued.

good luck to you!
 

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Raquet balls are good for the hand exercises booty mentioned. They're cheap and very durable. I used them when I was a pitcher to build my forearms and grip strength. Like she said, keep one handy in your desk or bookbag and just squeeze it whenever you have down time.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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