"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My hairstyle goes against everything on this site.. but how much does it matter?

sharpshooter

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I'm wondering, how much does hair matter? Right now my hair is like an early 90's punk. It's somewhat brushed up and bushy on the top, but pretty neat on the sides and back. A controlled type of mess. Usually i'm wearing a really nice leather jacket with clean jeans and clean shoes, so this creates an amazing look. It's not really long, about 2 inches worth of hair. So it's not long, but just somewhat big and bushy, the sides are a lot smaller though, and not bushy. Sorta like a bushy mushroom cut, but not quite a mushroom.

It's like brushing my hair up, without gel or anything. It doesn't look like i did it on purpose though, as it's a "controlled" type of mess.

This is the first time i've kept my hair like this, it's only because my confidence is so high, i don't give a **** how my hair is! I was thinking of getting a haircut this morning, but then I thought it might ruin this look i've got going right now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jiveturkey

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hairstyles basically depend on your age....right now i sport a "shag" (about 5inches all around), a wild uncontrolable mess, but its alright cuz i'm 18 and still in highschool so its accepted.....

and IMO hairstyle has very little to do with getting girls, its all confidence and how u act.... today a girl i've been flirting with (but never gone out with) asked me "so what are WE doing 2morow" (she stressed the we part)... then i said "WE arent doing anything, I'm going out with my friends... maybe WE will go out next friday"...and she said "ok fine"..... then i said "but i said maybe so its not for sure yet".. then gave her a sly smile.... oh yeh she wants me..haha
 

DJ Alejandro

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it doesn't matter all that much. what's important is how you project yourself in relation to looks.

as for me, the 'in' thing would always get better results if it were just me. hey, use it to your advantage and stand out.
 

SuperMan_Wuss

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I have a shaved head most of the time. I also have a half goat, i.e. there is facial hair on my chin but not under my nose. I am 25 though and it works for me.
 

CLOONEY

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haha, I had a mullet for the last few months, the chicks fukcing loved it, hahahaa. Although all my mates and dudes I know would tease the fukc out of me, not like it mattered, I just told them, whos the one getting the ladies :D

Now I chopped it and got it styled. Instead of looking like a dude who didnt give a fukc now I look like a total fukcing pooof!! It is just too neat and gay, oh well, I havent taken my hat off since getting it cut, hahaha, wait till it grows a little so I can get the messy look.

Hairstyle can make a HUGE difference to your appearance. Although as long as you are comfortable with whatever your hair looks like, your fine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sharpshooter

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yeah, some friends are giving me two thumbs up, some are saying "so...when are you gonna get a haircut!"

haha. I hate using gel or anything like that, f that stuff.

i'll probably get a haircut tommorow though
 

Tails

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i have a small fro (curly dark brown hair).. if anyone knows guy sebastian (australian idol winner)... that's the hair i've got, not as big though. so it naturally looks messy, hehe. curls get gurls ;)
 
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