"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My good looks are ruining my game: need help

David Zappa

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Hi there,

I'm a male model, but I feelmy looks really intimidate women. Not to boast, but I have a chiseled jawline, high cheekbones, dark hair, dark eyes, and am six foot two. Maybe this combination intimidates women? I need help cause i feel that the way ruins my game. I am also very articulate and well dressed. I need help on how to make myself more approachable? Even ball busting feminists look down when they see me. I intimidate corporate type women, too. But women rarely approach me in clubs. But I do have a friend who is good looking, but not as good as me, who gets approaches and complimented a lot more than me.

Need help, since I've been very shy for most of my life.

David
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gaspipe

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David Zappa said:
Hi there,

I'm a male model, but I feelmy looks really intimidate women. Not to boast, but I have a chiseled jawline, high cheekbones, dark hair, dark eyes, and am six foot two. Maybe this combination intimidates women? I need help cause i feel that the way ruins my game. I am also very articulate and well dressed. I need help on how to make myself more approachable? Even ball busting feminists look down when they see me. I intimidate corporate type women, too. But women rarely approach me in clubs. But I do have a friend who is good looking, but not as good as me, who gets approaches and complimented a lot more than me.

Need help, since I've been very shy for most of my life.

David
Are you approaching them? If yes what kind of reaction are you getting.

Ive been told plenty of times that Im good looking even gorgeous but also experienced situations where women just dont seem to acknowledge my presence or have trouble keeping eye contact with me, etc which really makes me wonder sometimes whether Im even remotely attractive. Im not really the model type but more the rugged type. Im also ripped. Regardless, I dont get approached much. So I understand your situation.

I think having an open and friendly disposition helps alot because many women assume that good looking guys are stuck up.

In other words, if you are physically attractive you have the burden of showing that you are really just a regular guy at heart.
 
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