"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My good looks are ruining my game: need help

David Zappa

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Hi there,

I'm a male model, but I feelmy looks really intimidate women. Not to boast, but I have a chiseled jawline, high cheekbones, dark hair, dark eyes, and am six foot two. Maybe this combination intimidates women? I need help cause i feel that the way ruins my game. I am also very articulate and well dressed. I need help on how to make myself more approachable? Even ball busting feminists look down when they see me. I intimidate corporate type women, too. But women rarely approach me in clubs. But I do have a friend who is good looking, but not as good as me, who gets approaches and complimented a lot more than me.

Need help, since I've been very shy for most of my life.

David
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gaspipe

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David Zappa said:
Hi there,

I'm a male model, but I feelmy looks really intimidate women. Not to boast, but I have a chiseled jawline, high cheekbones, dark hair, dark eyes, and am six foot two. Maybe this combination intimidates women? I need help cause i feel that the way ruins my game. I am also very articulate and well dressed. I need help on how to make myself more approachable? Even ball busting feminists look down when they see me. I intimidate corporate type women, too. But women rarely approach me in clubs. But I do have a friend who is good looking, but not as good as me, who gets approaches and complimented a lot more than me.

Need help, since I've been very shy for most of my life.

David
Are you approaching them? If yes what kind of reaction are you getting.

Ive been told plenty of times that Im good looking even gorgeous but also experienced situations where women just dont seem to acknowledge my presence or have trouble keeping eye contact with me, etc which really makes me wonder sometimes whether Im even remotely attractive. Im not really the model type but more the rugged type. Im also ripped. Regardless, I dont get approached much. So I understand your situation.

I think having an open and friendly disposition helps alot because many women assume that good looking guys are stuck up.

In other words, if you are physically attractive you have the burden of showing that you are really just a regular guy at heart.
 
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