"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My good looks are ruining my game: need help

David Zappa

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Hi there,

I'm a male model, but I feelmy looks really intimidate women. Not to boast, but I have a chiseled jawline, high cheekbones, dark hair, dark eyes, and am six foot two. Maybe this combination intimidates women? I need help cause i feel that the way ruins my game. I am also very articulate and well dressed. I need help on how to make myself more approachable? Even ball busting feminists look down when they see me. I intimidate corporate type women, too. But women rarely approach me in clubs. But I do have a friend who is good looking, but not as good as me, who gets approaches and complimented a lot more than me.

Need help, since I've been very shy for most of my life.

David
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gaspipe

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David Zappa said:
Hi there,

I'm a male model, but I feelmy looks really intimidate women. Not to boast, but I have a chiseled jawline, high cheekbones, dark hair, dark eyes, and am six foot two. Maybe this combination intimidates women? I need help cause i feel that the way ruins my game. I am also very articulate and well dressed. I need help on how to make myself more approachable? Even ball busting feminists look down when they see me. I intimidate corporate type women, too. But women rarely approach me in clubs. But I do have a friend who is good looking, but not as good as me, who gets approaches and complimented a lot more than me.

Need help, since I've been very shy for most of my life.

David
Are you approaching them? If yes what kind of reaction are you getting.

Ive been told plenty of times that Im good looking even gorgeous but also experienced situations where women just dont seem to acknowledge my presence or have trouble keeping eye contact with me, etc which really makes me wonder sometimes whether Im even remotely attractive. Im not really the model type but more the rugged type. Im also ripped. Regardless, I dont get approached much. So I understand your situation.

I think having an open and friendly disposition helps alot because many women assume that good looking guys are stuck up.

In other words, if you are physically attractive you have the burden of showing that you are really just a regular guy at heart.
 
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