topmanbarry
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Yup its official, they're writing on each others walls. I feel torn, betrayed, weak, angry, depressed, dumb
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My girlfriends ex is begging for her back
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
VikingKing
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Don't even beat yourself up. Life goes on. She stopped caring about your feelings a long time ago. You feel feel torn, betrayed, weak, angry, depressed, dumb? good, because you learned a valuable lesson here.
Now you know. Accept it, move forward. Go improve yourself.
Now you know. Accept it, move forward. Go improve yourself.
The thing about the advice we can offer is we can only show you how to pull a girls card before she pulls it.
If you dump her, stick with it until SHE apologises
If she doesn't, you did the right thing.
If you feel she's going to do something, beat her to it.
Besides, imagine how many different chicks you could have met up until now even if she never apologised.
If you dump her, stick with it until SHE apologises
If she doesn't, you did the right thing.
If you feel she's going to do something, beat her to it.
Besides, imagine how many different chicks you could have met up until now even if she never apologised.
Ha Ha! Now I see why everyone was so interested in hearing about my crazy relationships as they were occuring. This was an entertaining read, and brought back memories of my most recent "ex" (which was like 5 years ago).
From everything I've read here, you're all insane, insecure, and obsessed with chaos and drama. But so was I, so whatever.
The common denominator, of course, is her. And I'm not saying this because she's a female, and I hate the wymminz. She managed to get everyone caught up in the drama she created. She broke up with her ex, after all the fighting and breaking up (mmmhmmm...), and still kept in contact with him - then brought you into it, and your relationship turned out the same way. D'oh. This is a repeated pattern, and what drama bishes do to everyone they get involved with. She lives for this ****.
Her being sexually abused as a youngin most certainly had a lot to do with it. The girls I dated like this all had daddy issues. They were all super sweet, fell in love super hard, seemed all perfect... but they were really insane and obsessed with drama and chaotic relationships. They also kept a lot of distance and shut away from others, blah blah.
These bishes ALWAYS manage to keep guys pining for them with their crazy antics. They also lie about all their "friends" and "exes" that they claim to hate / want nothing to do with - but keep talking to (and about). Of course, they end up dating them. But the guys enjoy and embrace it all the same. It's all chaos.
This isn't healthy, and I have no idea where you got the marriage material idea from. Just another crazy, immature, drama bish.
From everything I've read here, you're all insane, insecure, and obsessed with chaos and drama. But so was I, so whatever.
The common denominator, of course, is her. And I'm not saying this because she's a female, and I hate the wymminz. She managed to get everyone caught up in the drama she created. She broke up with her ex, after all the fighting and breaking up (mmmhmmm...), and still kept in contact with him - then brought you into it, and your relationship turned out the same way. D'oh. This is a repeated pattern, and what drama bishes do to everyone they get involved with. She lives for this ****.
Her being sexually abused as a youngin most certainly had a lot to do with it. The girls I dated like this all had daddy issues. They were all super sweet, fell in love super hard, seemed all perfect... but they were really insane and obsessed with drama and chaotic relationships. They also kept a lot of distance and shut away from others, blah blah.
These bishes ALWAYS manage to keep guys pining for them with their crazy antics. They also lie about all their "friends" and "exes" that they claim to hate / want nothing to do with - but keep talking to (and about). Of course, they end up dating them. But the guys enjoy and embrace it all the same. It's all chaos.
This isn't healthy, and I have no idea where you got the marriage material idea from. Just another crazy, immature, drama bish.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
hockeyfreak79
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^^^^Weezzyy said:
Agreed 100%!
OP sounds young and naïve (we have all been there), learn from this man and move on with YOUR life.
floydb25----ABSOLUTE TRUTH, your whole post.
I had a buddy go through this, I spent countless hours telling him to move on. He completely ignored any advice that I'd gave him. 3-4 year toxic relationship, I don't get it how people can put themselves through so much misery.
It got so bad that his physical condition started to deteriorate, all stress induced. Fortunately, he has finally learned his lesson and has moved on.