topmanbarry
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Yup its official, they're writing on each others walls. I feel torn, betrayed, weak, angry, depressed, dumb
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My girlfriends ex is begging for her back
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
VikingKing
Banned
Don't even beat yourself up. Life goes on. She stopped caring about your feelings a long time ago. You feel feel torn, betrayed, weak, angry, depressed, dumb? good, because you learned a valuable lesson here.
Now you know. Accept it, move forward. Go improve yourself.
Now you know. Accept it, move forward. Go improve yourself.
The thing about the advice we can offer is we can only show you how to pull a girls card before she pulls it.
If you dump her, stick with it until SHE apologises
If she doesn't, you did the right thing.
If you feel she's going to do something, beat her to it.
Besides, imagine how many different chicks you could have met up until now even if she never apologised.
If you dump her, stick with it until SHE apologises
If she doesn't, you did the right thing.
If you feel she's going to do something, beat her to it.
Besides, imagine how many different chicks you could have met up until now even if she never apologised.
Ha Ha! Now I see why everyone was so interested in hearing about my crazy relationships as they were occuring. This was an entertaining read, and brought back memories of my most recent "ex" (which was like 5 years ago).
From everything I've read here, you're all insane, insecure, and obsessed with chaos and drama. But so was I, so whatever.
The common denominator, of course, is her. And I'm not saying this because she's a female, and I hate the wymminz. She managed to get everyone caught up in the drama she created. She broke up with her ex, after all the fighting and breaking up (mmmhmmm...), and still kept in contact with him - then brought you into it, and your relationship turned out the same way. D'oh. This is a repeated pattern, and what drama bishes do to everyone they get involved with. She lives for this ****.
Her being sexually abused as a youngin most certainly had a lot to do with it. The girls I dated like this all had daddy issues. They were all super sweet, fell in love super hard, seemed all perfect... but they were really insane and obsessed with drama and chaotic relationships. They also kept a lot of distance and shut away from others, blah blah.
These bishes ALWAYS manage to keep guys pining for them with their crazy antics. They also lie about all their "friends" and "exes" that they claim to hate / want nothing to do with - but keep talking to (and about). Of course, they end up dating them. But the guys enjoy and embrace it all the same. It's all chaos.
This isn't healthy, and I have no idea where you got the marriage material idea from. Just another crazy, immature, drama bish.
From everything I've read here, you're all insane, insecure, and obsessed with chaos and drama. But so was I, so whatever.
The common denominator, of course, is her. And I'm not saying this because she's a female, and I hate the wymminz. She managed to get everyone caught up in the drama she created. She broke up with her ex, after all the fighting and breaking up (mmmhmmm...), and still kept in contact with him - then brought you into it, and your relationship turned out the same way. D'oh. This is a repeated pattern, and what drama bishes do to everyone they get involved with. She lives for this ****.
Her being sexually abused as a youngin most certainly had a lot to do with it. The girls I dated like this all had daddy issues. They were all super sweet, fell in love super hard, seemed all perfect... but they were really insane and obsessed with drama and chaotic relationships. They also kept a lot of distance and shut away from others, blah blah.
These bishes ALWAYS manage to keep guys pining for them with their crazy antics. They also lie about all their "friends" and "exes" that they claim to hate / want nothing to do with - but keep talking to (and about). Of course, they end up dating them. But the guys enjoy and embrace it all the same. It's all chaos.
This isn't healthy, and I have no idea where you got the marriage material idea from. Just another crazy, immature, drama bish.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hockeyfreak79
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^^^^Weezzyy said:
Agreed 100%!
OP sounds young and naïve (we have all been there), learn from this man and move on with YOUR life.
floydb25----ABSOLUTE TRUTH, your whole post.
I had a buddy go through this, I spent countless hours telling him to move on. He completely ignored any advice that I'd gave him. 3-4 year toxic relationship, I don't get it how people can put themselves through so much misery.
It got so bad that his physical condition started to deteriorate, all stress induced. Fortunately, he has finally learned his lesson and has moved on.