"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thezodiac

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i had been incorporating the lessons on this site and many programs mainly DYD, my girlfriend used to be dying to talk to me etc, but at one point i regressed back to old habits and kindof fell back into my old mold a bit. i wussed out plain and simple, now she says she still loves me we have good times still but i find im timid now when i used to have fun teasing her or whatever, etc etc, what should i do? i feel a little needy and feel painful when she doesnt call me etc. i'm not sure she feels that same mutual pain, but she seems like it. how do i get out of my wussy state and start being a man and taking more control of this situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Note that most of the rules you learn from this site are how to deal with women OUTSIDE of a LTR. The only thing you need to worry about is not abandoning your hobbies and friends to spend more time with her. If you have a life you'll be more than enough of a challenge. Showing emotion to your GF is part of a relationship and suppressing your emotions to "be a man" will only hurt things.
 

Kaine

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Heres a quick dirty way which is congruent to you state of mind:


Visualise her dumping your ass because you are too needy

Allow yourself to feel how much more painful that is

Imagine you acting feminine and clingy and her getting disgusted and turned off

Now leverage those feelings to push you back the opposite way


Kaine
 
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