kenpiffyjr
Senior Don Juan
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Lol it's not that deep bro.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My girlfriend would never cheat !
- Thread starter NeoKortex
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I know. And you still manage to misinterpret it.
That's why I'd be concerned about your mentality and your white knighting
other posters. Oh well, no worries...
Now that I think about it, the last time I heard "let's take a break" was when I was
a teenager in my first LTR.
Could be a cultural thing.....could be a generational thing..
ah who cares, we've all got different perspectives....
All of our perceptions carry with them the errors of subjectivity....
Take it easy....
Glumix
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We all made many mistakes in the past. You are the best version of yourself right now.
The real question is what do you want to be tomorrow?