kenpiffyjr
Senior Don Juan
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Lol it's not that deep bro.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My girlfriend would never cheat !
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I know. And you still manage to misinterpret it.
That's why I'd be concerned about your mentality and your white knighting
other posters. Oh well, no worries...
Now that I think about it, the last time I heard "let's take a break" was when I was
a teenager in my first LTR.
Could be a cultural thing.....could be a generational thing..
ah who cares, we've all got different perspectives....
All of our perceptions carry with them the errors of subjectivity....
Take it easy....
Glumix
Senior Don Juan
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We all made many mistakes in the past. You are the best version of yourself right now.
The real question is what do you want to be tomorrow?