"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My girlfriend wears her ex's boxers and t-shirts around her house in front of me...

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...or at least I think she does. She swears they were her brothers boxers and that they were never even opened before he gave them to her. She also wears a lot of t-shirts around the house that she says were her brother's too.

I can't tell if she's lying; and yes, it does sound stupid, but if these happened to be an ex's, it would bother the hell out of me. I mean, she says she loves me more than she's ever loved anyone, yadda, yadda... but she's never put one of my shirts on, or a pair of my boxers.

I wondering if she's telling the truth. They're probably from her best lay or something... which is what I was thinking.

Ugh! I hate women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seriously who cares.. think of how liberating it would be to not give a crap.

Or as Ross Jeffries talks about: Witness the emotion in you and realize that it's merely a process of the deep parts of your brain that helped humans survive 50,000 years ago but have no benefit for you now.

Once you have full control over the emotions you feel, you will be an enlightened human.

Here is your chance. Let the chick walk around in another dude's underwear and analyze the feelings you have. They will be those of jealousy. Ask yourself how they benefited humans 50,000 years ago but how they have little benefit for you now in this life. Laugh. You are on your way to enlightenment.
 
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jealousy is a 50,000 year old emotion?

I would have to disagree and say that back in the stone age there was no such thing as jealousy, only sex, eat, survive.

I think jealousy is an emotion of today as we have not to worry about eating and surviving so much. Sex is a much higher priority because it is the only thing most people have to work for these days.
 
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Jealousy comes from fear of loss, a part of the attachment/pair bonding emotions/hormones.

In reply to OP, it sounds like one of those problems that disappear with time. They will only stay if you show it bothers you. She can tell it makes you jealous!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The OP makes a new thread about this girl every week.

If you have to make that many threads about strange behavior, that's not a good sign.
 
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