"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My girlfriend wears her ex's boxers and t-shirts around her house in front of me...

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...or at least I think she does. She swears they were her brothers boxers and that they were never even opened before he gave them to her. She also wears a lot of t-shirts around the house that she says were her brother's too.

I can't tell if she's lying; and yes, it does sound stupid, but if these happened to be an ex's, it would bother the hell out of me. I mean, she says she loves me more than she's ever loved anyone, yadda, yadda... but she's never put one of my shirts on, or a pair of my boxers.

I wondering if she's telling the truth. They're probably from her best lay or something... which is what I was thinking.

Ugh! I hate women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Seriously who cares.. think of how liberating it would be to not give a crap.

Or as Ross Jeffries talks about: Witness the emotion in you and realize that it's merely a process of the deep parts of your brain that helped humans survive 50,000 years ago but have no benefit for you now.

Once you have full control over the emotions you feel, you will be an enlightened human.

Here is your chance. Let the chick walk around in another dude's underwear and analyze the feelings you have. They will be those of jealousy. Ask yourself how they benefited humans 50,000 years ago but how they have little benefit for you now in this life. Laugh. You are on your way to enlightenment.
 
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jealousy is a 50,000 year old emotion?

I would have to disagree and say that back in the stone age there was no such thing as jealousy, only sex, eat, survive.

I think jealousy is an emotion of today as we have not to worry about eating and surviving so much. Sex is a much higher priority because it is the only thing most people have to work for these days.
 
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Jealousy comes from fear of loss, a part of the attachment/pair bonding emotions/hormones.

In reply to OP, it sounds like one of those problems that disappear with time. They will only stay if you show it bothers you. She can tell it makes you jealous!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The OP makes a new thread about this girl every week.

If you have to make that many threads about strange behavior, that's not a good sign.
 
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