"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My girlfriend was tricked into doing a perverted, women abuse fetish "indie" film

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Driggs

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I was involved in the adult industry for over a decade and I am going to tell you that there is some very shady **** that goes on with some of the fetish crap.

If he had misgivings he was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT to act on them.
 

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Driggs said:
I was involved in the adult industry for over a decade and I am going to tell you that there is some very shady **** that goes on with some of the fetish crap.

If he had misgivings he was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT to act on them.
If he didn't have misgivings about his gfriend being in a porno I might be worried.

This wasn't a porno movie though. It was a scene about a woman being beat up.

OP didn't really do his gfriend any favors here.
 

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Much ado about nothing. 7 hours behind schedule is no big deal. Crews in other parts of the world deal with much worse.

It's a ****ing amateur film. If she was being attacked for real, then maybe your reaction would be right.

Rantings of an Alpha-wannabe.
 
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