"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My girlfriend was tricked into doing a perverted, women abuse fetish "indie" film

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Driggs

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I was involved in the adult industry for over a decade and I am going to tell you that there is some very shady **** that goes on with some of the fetish crap.

If he had misgivings he was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT to act on them.
 

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Driggs said:
I was involved in the adult industry for over a decade and I am going to tell you that there is some very shady **** that goes on with some of the fetish crap.

If he had misgivings he was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT to act on them.
If he didn't have misgivings about his gfriend being in a porno I might be worried.

This wasn't a porno movie though. It was a scene about a woman being beat up.

OP didn't really do his gfriend any favors here.
 

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Much ado about nothing. 7 hours behind schedule is no big deal. Crews in other parts of the world deal with much worse.

It's a ****ing amateur film. If she was being attacked for real, then maybe your reaction would be right.

Rantings of an Alpha-wannabe.
 
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