My girlfriend versus my pride

[the_great_gaia]

My girlfriend once told me that if we went a whole day without talking on the phone, it'd drive her crazy.

She called me at 10:30pm, but we didn't talk too long. She said that she'd call me back. I went to sleep immediately after, I was tired. I woke up at 2:45am, and I looked at my cell phone and it didn't say "1 Missed Call"- she never called back. I know that she went out with her sisters for that night, but she never even called back. I become concerned, but I also kept telling myself "I didn't care". I called and left a message saying "You never called back, but I'm not mad. Well, good night, I'll talk to you later" Why did I leave that message? Because we've been telling each other "Good Night" on the phone for the last 2 months, kinda like a ritual. Not last night, and I definitely feel like the ball's in her court. It is. I am silently going crazy, but she'll never know it. If she ever calls back, I'll play off as if last night never even mattered. And I solely believe that my girlfriend is an "Attention *****". She has all the symptoms of one. I really think that she met another guy last night and she probably spent an eternity with him on the phone. How can I find peace?

 

[Hubris]

This will work itself out. What you need to do is act normal, and not do anythingrash for 1 week.

In 1 week, you'll see how stupid it was for you to have posted this message.

 

[Julian]

quit being a b1tch. oh boohoo she didnt call u. Who cares, get a life.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Julian
quit being a b1tch. oh boohoo she didnt call u. Who cares, get a life.

Harsh, but true. If you don't trust that your girlfriend loves you, even when she misses a call, either 1) she's not trustworthy enough to be your steady girl, or 2) you're not secure enough to be her steady guy.

Relax.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Why are you calling a girl to tell her 'good night'???

Boys do this kind of thing - men don't!!!

Don't talk on the phone too much - that is what women do. Men are of 'action' not conversing - bring her in your territory and leave that phone crap for girls!

 

[the_great_gaia]

i appreciate all the advice i'm receiving, even the cruel comments are beautiful; i only wish i had someone to tell me these things all alone.

Anyhow, the next morning, I woke up at 12:30pm, I went to lift weights; the fact that she didn't call was still riding on my back, I was basically feeling like a pure b1tch. And a b1tch i was, so i decided to work out. I actually wish I hadn't waken up so early, so I did a work out to make me go back to sleep; which worked. I woke back up at 2pm, and I still hadn't gotten a call. By this time, i called her and TWICE i got her voice mail. I didn't leave a message. I agreed not to call her again until 4:30pm. But I decided to check my message, because something didn't feel right. I had one new message, by her, it went:
"Yeah, wassup, Mike, this Andrea. I was just calling you to tell you i miss you and I ain't have nobody to talk to so I decided to call you or whatever. But I see you sleep, and I done called you like a million times but i'm all home by myself so all i could do is think about you, good night. bye"
........now what?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

You sound like a wussie!!!!!!!

Read my first post and adhere to the counsel!!!!