"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My girlfriend tells me her ex would last many hours in bed

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My girlfriend use to do meth back in the day, so i ask her, if she slept with guys that were on meth as well. She said no but her last boyfriend she was with for a couple of years before me. He was Indian and he was in that karma Sutra stuff and she told me they would have sex 12 hours a day, not straight 12 hours but they would go hours then take a bath together then go at it for hours more. Now I did not need to know that but how am I going to compete with something like that?
She is in her mid 40`s and she has been involved with married men. That Indian guy was married when she was with him for those two years. She also was sleeping with another married guy for a very short time. They both dumped her BTW.....She says she loves me and she also moved here to texas from San Diego..is she Trouble?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow i wonder how many times have she reset her vagin-O-meter ??
 
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Well she has no moral issues with infidelity it seems. Is her being faithful to you important?
Is that trouble to you?
 
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Yes, being faithful is very important. I feel intimidated by having sex with her now. It turned me off big time.
 
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If a girl tells me that i'd be on the back of my mind whenever having sex... Not easy to forget!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dude. Wake up! After about an hour - an hour and 1/2 she gets sore. Forget what she says. You just do your thing and stop thinking about it. Your goal is to make her orgasm not run a fvcking marathon.... literally! You can make a girl orgasm just by touching her, you don't even have to penetrate.
 
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stevo65 said:
he was in that karma Sutra stuff and she told me they would have sex 12 hours a day, not straight 12 hours but they would go hours then take a bath together then go at it for hours more.
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You're goddamned right he did.

Follow the way, and all mysteries will be revealed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Haha just do your thing the way you always did it.. no need to impress anyone at this point, as long as both of you are satisfied.
 
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You say "My ex' pusvy was much tighter than yours". Smile, and go make a sandwich.
 
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Falcon25 said:
You say "My ex' pusvy was much tighter than yours". Smile, and go make a sandwich.
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& here ends the topic.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Personally I wouldn't touch a woman like this, but if I did, I'd be in it for myself only. I wouldn't care if she didn't orgasm, if I lasted less than 3 minutes as long as I got my kicks.

The irony is, the less you care about impressing her, the more she'll want you.

Though it's pretty obvious this woman is not relationship material.
 
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Falcon25 said:
You say "My ex' pusvy was much tighter than yours". Smile, and go make a sandwich.
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better yet, make her go make you a sandwich ???
 
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Tell her: "12 hours of sex a day, huh? I'll do that with you, but only if it's anal sex... Let's see what you're made of, bigmouth!!"
 
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