My Girlfriend Started Playing Hard2Get all off a sudden please help?

[Axl Salvator]

Well, I can't even begin to comprehend that.

There is nothing special about any woman at all. If you think so, then she is probably filling some sort of emotional hole that you currently have.

In other words, you have 'special-needs'. And I'm not sure that I can help that.

I don't think this woman can either though.

Man let me enlighten you a bit Im Axl im 22,I have really good looks
been working out for like 7 years already etc,Wealth wise we are really rich
my father passed away in front of my eyes it was kinda difficult for me
he left lots of things but i keept fighting in life and i never used his money
I study Medicine it's my last year i got 1 exam left to finish it almost a Doctor
Never head the complex with Woman i never even needed to approach them they would do it
themself,sleept with alot etc but i kinda feelt this darkness emptiness inside
no woman made me feel,it's like when i pmed this girl she was really sensitive caring emotional like a flower
and i missed that alot the love of a woman,Everything was like god was gifting me with an angel and i opened myself up to her
she did the same everything was going on point then she suddenly does this i am not saying i did not **** it up it's probably my fault
but i keept fighting for her man all thos months and it feels really heavy it's like a state where your in life when for something you worked so hard it just cannot happen it feels like
your being catapulted in Universe and you have to figure out what the fwk to do hopefully everything will be fine and will return to it old state.
That's why i came here and i know you guys got more experience and thanks alot you try your best from your valuable time to help me i appreciate that alot.
It's just that i wanted to know what my other move would be in pm's that's all,if she even decides to pm me i guess i should be patient find the inner strength like i found it before,and wait

 

[marmel75]

Well, I can't even begin to comprehend that.

There is nothing special about any woman at all. If you think so, then she is probably filling some sort of emotional hole that you currently have.

In other words, you have 'special-needs'. And I'm not sure that I can help that.

I don't think this woman can either though.

Always find it amazing how dudes say they are having sex with other women but then act so obviously desperate around the woman they post about...doesn't make much sense to me

 

[CMNILS87]

Well, I can't even begin to comprehend that.

There is nothing special about any woman at all. If you think so, then she is probably filling some sort of emotional hole that you currently have.

In other words, you have 'special-needs'. And I'm not sure that I can help that.

I don't think this woman can either though.

And this right here ----^ was the lynchpin for me. Why get so emotional about sex and try to make a strong bond right away. The more sex and women you date the more normal it becomes to be like, "that was really fun, we'll hang agsin soon". Meanwhile you give her good sex, her hamster spins for days and she blows up your phone like a crazy woman talking how shower sex is the newest craze

 

[Thatfeel21]

Man let me enlighten you a bit Im Axl im 22,I have really good looks
been working out for like 7 years already etc,Wealth wise we are really rich
my father passed away in front of my eyes it was kinda difficult for me
he left lots of things but i keept fighting in life and i never used his money
I study Medicine it's my last year i got 1 exam left to finish it almost a Doctor
Never head the complex with Woman i never even needed to approach them they would do it
themself,sleept with alot etc but i kinda feelt this darkness emptiness inside
no woman made me feel,it's like when i pmed this girl she was really sensitive caring emotional like a flower
and i missed that alot the love of a woman,Everything was like god was gifting me with an angel and i opened myself up to her
she did the same everything was going on point then she suddenly does this i am not saying i did not **** it up it's probably my fault
but i keept fighting for her man all thos months and it feels really heavy it's like a state where your in life when for something you worked so hard it just cannot happen it feels like
your being catapulted in Universe and you have to figure out what the fwk to do hopefully everything will be fine and will return to it old state.
That's why i came here and i know you guys got more experience and thanks alot you try your best from your valuable time to help me i appreciate that alot.
It's just that i wanted to know what my other move would be in pm's that's all,if she even decides to pm me i guess i should be patient find the inner strength like i found it before,and wait

So you're wealthy, 7yrs into lifting, really good looking, damn NEAR a Doctor, and have seen your own father die. But yet, youre obsessed with this one woman. And you have the writing skills of a remedial teenager.

 

[marmel75]

So you're wealthy, 7yrs into lifting, really good looking, damn NEAR a Doctor, and have seen your own father die. But yet, youre obsessed with this one woman. And you have the writing skills of a remedial teenager.

And don't forget banging 4 other women at the same time and writing pages on a forum about one chick he is obsessed with and desperate to not lose which makes it clear he has no other real options...all seems perfectly clear, lol

 

[dude99]

Guys one More question please,if someone can make this clear to me
If she decides to pm me lets pretend she pmed me should i let the message
on delivered for a day and then pm her back telling her hey i was busy
And talk about some school projects etc like nothing happened like she does
and then tell her catch ya up laterz and leave again and not pm i think
this might increase the chase on her side a bit more!
Also is there a possibility how to put the ball on her court and inv her
out straightly and then leave please someone answer.
She always when she decides to pm pm's warms me up in the convo and you
can't really predict when she will leave the convo boom she leaves it and
then she pm's tomorrow again,once i didn't pm her for like 3 hours she got
super pissed and when i pmed her back she waited a day then replied please
someone make this clear to me it would mean alot i know i am boring but
it's just that i really don't wanna lose her!!!!!

Withdraw all attention to this girl. Date other women. Date women who are interested in you.

You have thrown all your eggs in her basket. She knows you have no options. She sees this as weak. Texting her is driving her already low interest into the toilet.

Get busy. Hit the gym. Spin plates. Improve yourself and withdraw all attention to this girl.

 

[dude99]

If i don't reply if she decides to pm she will feel ignored her interest
level will drop even more one more question,i also need to reply if she pm's
we cant set up meetings without pm's.

Withdrawing your attention will force her to chase you....if she is interested at all. If she doesn't then she isn't interested and you chasing her is only going to make you look more pathetic in her eyes and be a huge waste of your time.

 

[Julian]

this is a fkin joke lol. strong troll

 

[Axl Salvator]

Always find it amazing how dudes say they are having sex with other women but then act so obviously desperate around the woman they post about...doesn't make much sense to me

Withdrawing your attention will force her to chase you....if she is interested at all. If she doesn't then she isn't interested and you chasing her is only going to make you look more pathetic in her eyes and be a huge waste of your time.

Guys update she left the message on seen after 3 days probably trying to get an angry reaction or drops of pm's i been really busy with school it feels great!
She probably going to continue till tomorrow like this then pm maybe she is aware of what's going on so tomorrow i won't pm act busy for a few days then answer.

 

[dude99]

Guys update she left the message on seen after 3 days probably trying to get an angry reaction or drops of pm's i been really busy with school it feels great!
She probably going to continue till tomorrow like this then pm maybe she is aware of what's going on so tomorrow i won't pm act busy for a few days then answer.

Just next her already. Delete her on social media and go no contact.

 

[Axl Salvator]

Just next her already. Delete her on social media and go no contact.

Why is she trying so hard to get an reaction mhm i don't really get it?

 

[dude99]

Why is she trying so hard to get an reaction mhm i don't really get it?

Looks like it is working. Why are you trying so hard to entertain her

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If a female plays hard to get, IGNORE or REDUCE attention. Find something else to do. And BTW guys, a female can "like" you and still play hard to get. Maybe some of her female compadres convinced her she is too "easy" or "nice"... But you neutralize it by ignoring her and allow herself to squeeze in YOUR schedule not the other way.

 

[Axl Salvator]

If a female plays hard to get, IGNORE or REDUCE attention. Find something else to do. And BTW guys, a female can "like" you and still play hard to get. Maybe some of her female compadres convinced her she is too "easy" or "nice"... But you neutralize it by ignoring her and allow herself to squeeze in YOUR schedule not the other way.

It's the 4th day already no pm's,i know right bro you were the most specific like she was all cool and stuff she rather read something on forums or internet that she started acting like this it's the 4th day and no pm's just she left it on seen so she can get an reaction and then play it cool probably one of the two options,she would have not made me jealous otherwise.
Will try my best bro

 

[C00lAF]

It's the 4th day already no pm's,i know right bro you were the most specific like she was all cool and stuff she rather read something on forums or internet that she started acting like this it's the 4th day and no pm's just she left it on seen so she can get an reaction and then play it cool probably one of the two options,she would have not made me jealous otherwise.
Will try my best bro

Why dont you fvcking listen to everyone? These dudes right here telling you to next her have more experince in women than you,they know how to deal with thier sh1t.plus whats up with all this love and darkness in you kind of talk?bruh love is nothing but an illousion and if anything its a chemicalc reaction.your father passed out infront of you?sorry bro dont get this wrong,this forum is about ****ing women,its called sosuave,not sofeel-ave,dont try to get sympathy out of anyone here.i also dont belive your 4 other women story,nor your doctor thing,cause spelling,and if u waste this time posting replies here and texting her and obssesing over "what to do next" like she is virgin mary or someone of such importance that means you got nothing going on in your life.obv an AFC/nice guy.
Your options:1.man the fvck up
2.re-read the bible
3.listen to every creature on this thread and spin plates.i could go on if i wanted to..

 

[Axl Salvator]

Why dont you fvcking listen to everyone? These dudes right here telling you to next her have more experince in women than you,they know how to deal with thier sh1t.plus whats up with all this love and darkness in you kind of talk?bruh love is nothing but an illousion and if anything its a chemicalc reaction.your father passed out infront of you?sorry bro dont get this wrong,this forum is about ****ing women,its called sosuave,not sofeel-ave,dont try to get sympathy out of anyone here.i also dont belive your 4 other women story,nor your doctor thing,cause spelling,and if u waste this time posting replies here and texting her and obssesing over "what to do next" like she is virgin mary or someone of such importance that means you got nothing going on in your life.obv an AFC/nice guy.
Your options:1.man the fvck up
2.re-read the bible
3.listen to every creature on this thread and spin plates.i could go on if i wanted to..

Dude what makes you think English is my 1st Language i get it i was wrong but i never lied about my profession so please stop being rude.

 

[inginocchiati]

Okey i don't really know how to start it's really complicated!
So we went out a bunch of times head sex etc everything was going fine!
We were really open to each other expressed every emotion that we head she told me a bunch of times i can't live without you i did the same i mean everything was going fine she would pm me afterwards for hours asking me caring about me i did the same.
But lately she suddenly changed for late 10 days,She pm's acts a bit distant cold short answers but still talks keeps in touch,The thing that she pays attention the most is she starts the convo makes me warm up and then suddenly leaves in the middle of the convo letting my message the last and then she again pm's tomorrow playing it cool like nothing happened and continues the loop like this,again the tells she loves me but the emotions are less,and she keeps telling me trying to make me jelly that a bunch of guys stared at her today that she's beautiful etc,So one day i got really tired of this **** and asked her what was going on with an emotional text and she told me she does not feel like talking to people in general she is tired etc it has nothing to do with you etc,and in the old day's she would be tired and still talk to me.She is playing it cool and trying to get me mad or make me jelly when i explode she then tries to chill me like nothing happened.
So i really thought of changing the game idk should i remove the Validation and like if she pm's me keep the convos short like 20 minute give her less validation like calling her babe and asking how her day was the telling her got to do sth important and leaving i really need to cut the convos really short cuz she fools me warms me up then leaves in the middle of the convo shes unpredictable when she is going to leave,I once talked to her 10 minutes and then told her that i need to do sth and she was like i love you left the text on seen then she snapped and again pmed me furious asked me a question and left my last answer on delivered and ran away!
I really like her we connected so much i just don't wanna lose her but she is really playing hard so i can't stand it!
Also note:She suffered from Depression this may be one cause,the second cause is she is trying to figure out if i am the same guy and i love her as my woman not just an sexual object but if i keep her begging caring alot i am losing her she thinks so high of her status and i drop myne,3rd one is she is probably talking to a guy which the possibilitie's are less since i was the first guy she was in the Relationship!
It's like i am so confused idk what to do and thank god i found this forum please if any of you could help any answer would be much appreciated thank you alot guys it means alot!

I don't even have to read your entire post. I have one word for you... codependent.

I think you need some time away from all women, so that you can find out who you are, learn about yourself, learn how to love yourself, and learn how to be content, even if you are by yourself.

You NEED to spend more time with guy friends, and if you don't have any... Make some.

"I can't live without you." Should be permanently erased from your mind. You can live without her, and will do just fine. For future, remember one thing. As a man, actions speak louder than words. You do not have to tell her anything, let your actions show that you care about her. Stop using words to shower her with needy thoughts.

My recommendation... Back off. Go out and spend time with friends, meet other women, work on your car, go to the gym... In other words, get a life outside of your relationships with women.

 

[devilkingx2]

sounds like someone's stricken with the oneitis, unfortunately, that someone isn't her.

i'm sorry man, this relationship has flatlined, you're done here. all you can do now is be hurt by her until you've known true cruelty and hate her. to stop that from happening your only choice is to go NC and forget about her

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's the 4th day already no pm's,i know right bro you were the most specific like she was all cool and stuff she rather read something on forums or internet that she started acting like this it's the 4th day and no pm's just she left it on seen so she can get an reaction and then play it cool probably one of the two options,she would have not made me jealous otherwise.
Will try my best bro

If she cares she will get at you. PM is too easy for her to know your still on the hook. Hang out with some other females who are attracted to you. It helps.