"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it possible she will come back?
More info this started with a trip I planned to a national park. Me and a friend ended up getting lost. She was so sick and tired of me that she finally left. Then I went and got a job at a hunters store. Should I just move on? Advice deeply appreciated.


Also a friend of mine also was recently dumped. But he went for the first girl that came along. Now his ex girlfriend knows where he lives. What should I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Beardme321 said:
Is it possible she will come back?
Starting with this phrase shows that you do want her back and you are not really ready to move on, which is ok.

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More info this started with a trip I planned to a national park. Me and a friend ended up getting lost. She was so sick and tired of me that she finally left. Then I went and got a job at a hunters store. Should I just move on? Advice deeply appreciated.
This reminds me of Family guy lol! Firstly, you don't give more info here! Tired of what? You, getting lost in national parks? Or are you always doing foolish things? if yes, then it's your fault and yes you should move on and get wiser!

You basically say, I broke up cause of a stupid reason, should I move on or try get back with her? How can anyone here know the answer? You want to move on? Move on! You want her back? Stop getting lost in National parks and wise up before even trying!

More info are needed in this thread about what happened, how long have you been together etc, I don't think anyone can help with these kind of info.
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Starting with this phrase shows that you do want her back and you are not really ready to move on, which is ok.



This reminds me of Family guy lol! Firstly, you don't give more info here! Tired of what? You, getting lost in national parks? Or are you always doing foolish things? if yes, then it's your fault and yes you should move on and get wiser!

You basically say, I broke up cause of a stupid reason, should I move on or try get back with her? How can anyone here know the answer? You want to move on? Move on! You want her back? Stop getting lost in National parks and wise up before even trying!

More info are needed in this thread about what happened, how long have you been together etc, I don't think anyone can help with these kind of info.
Thank you so much! We were together for 5 years. But she knows I was out of it for the last few years. I'm sure there's something there.
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Starting with this phrase shows that you do want her back and you are not really ready to move on, which is ok.



This reminds me of Family guy lol! Firstly, you don't give more info here! Tired of what? You, getting lost in national parks? Or are you always doing foolish things? if yes, then it's your fault and yes you should move on and get wiser!

You basically say, I broke up cause of a stupid reason, should I move on or try get back with her? How can anyone here know the answer? You want to move on? Move on! You want her back? Stop getting lost in National parks and wise up before even trying!

More info are needed in this thread about what happened, how long have you been together etc, I don't think anyone can help with these kind of info.
You know the other day I tried to go sailing. And I ended up getting hospitalized. All I could say was brinks.
 

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Thank you so much! We were together for 5 years. But she knows I was out of it for the last few years. I'm sure there's something there.
I will only stand here, she knows you were out of it? so you wanted to break up? if yes, then why all the fuzz?

You're sure there's something there? Sorry but I didn't get that! She broke up with you because she had figured it out?

If you regreted, you can try getting her back but I think you need to work yourself more. If she has moved on, you should move on as well! Your life seems adventurous so I don't think you'll have a problem with it! :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I will only stand here, she knows you were out of it? so you wanted to break up? if yes, then why all the fuzz?

You're sure there's something there? Sorry but I didn't get that! She broke up with you because she had figured it out?

If you regreted, you can try getting her back but I think you need to work yourself more. If she has moved on, you should move on as well! Your life seems adventurous so I don't think you'll have a problem with it! :)
Well I fell in love with her.
 

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Well I fell in love with her.
After you broke up? Then it's more of an EGO thing rather than love I guess, but ok!

You can try man! We obviously can't be sure about the reasons she broke up with you but you can try! I don't know if what you did was wrong, cause I support any idea of adventure especially for a man, but you seem to have failed both times in a funny way though! :) Just ask her out again and see where it goes!
 

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Is it possible she will come back?
More info this started with a trip I planned to a national park. Me and a friend ended up getting lost. She was so sick and tired of me that she finally left
no move on
 

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no move on
Thanks. I think this is what I'll do. Hey that Vantage guy might end up with Kate Upton right. Who knows what could happen.
 

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Read the 'dumped' no contact challenge guide, perfect for your situation
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok...blablabla...She broke up.....blablabla ...I love her...blablabla.
Nothing else to the story....everything in between is useless info. Now....time to say f it....cut your loses and no contact and move on.
I feeeeeeeel your pain.....I HATE IT....specially after a five year investment.
I wish there was a "pink pill".....we got the red pill, blue pill...and now its the pink pill. Except, this little pill you give to her and she falls in love with you as soon as she takes it. The pink pill....yeah, that is what I am going to call it!!!
Bro, not making fun of you, believe me when I say I am one who can easily fall in love, get oneitis, and become pu++y whipped if I let it happen. I have a jar of red pills to keep reminding me about reality. Unfortunately, that jar still almost full because I still have to keep taking it one by one....but one day that jar is going to be empty....and that's when I know I will be just fine.
Abe
 
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