"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My Girlfriend dont seem to be fun anymore. Still didn't get any yet.

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Hey fellas, lately my girlfriend and I having these arguements. Usually she always find some way to piss me off, then eventually I get over it. So I suggest we should do something on the weekends with her, then she agrees and then when that day comes around the corner, she flakes out on me. And then make up a lame excuse. I pretty much had it with her, she made my life so miserable lately. I'm so sick and tired waiting around for her anymore. Especially she have these really strict parents. Which prevents her from going out most of the times.

Also, I still haven't gotten laid with her yet. It has been almost 3 months since we been together. Each time we make out, then it leads to her taking everything off and I feel like having sex with her. But then she said, she not ready yet. (Obviously she a virgin)Then say something like "my body says go, but my heart say I'm not ready yet" Maybe I seduced her wrong. Have this ever happened to you guys before, like you want to get laid with your girlfriend, so you feel that you haven't wasted the months you spent with her? And then, what shall I do if next time i get this oppurtunity again, where I have her in my room again? Thanks, any kind of advice or pointers would be greatly appreciated :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ignore, read next--I screwed up :D
 
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Have you been acting needy? Calling her, IMing her, confronting her and always talking to her in the halls, constantly confirming on the date, or suggesting another one?

These are symptoms you may go through if shes acting this way. If any of them apply to you, then you know whats up.

To fix it be available less often, make HER want to set up the date, but YOU decide where to go, and what to do. (In other words make her ask for another date, and when she suggests something, you say, "Nah, let's...")
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