"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Girlfriend dont seem to be fun anymore. Still didn't get any yet.

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Hey fellas, lately my girlfriend and I having these arguements. Usually she always find some way to piss me off, then eventually I get over it. So I suggest we should do something on the weekends with her, then she agrees and then when that day comes around the corner, she flakes out on me. And then make up a lame excuse. I pretty much had it with her, she made my life so miserable lately. I'm so sick and tired waiting around for her anymore. Especially she have these really strict parents. Which prevents her from going out most of the times.

Also, I still haven't gotten laid with her yet. It has been almost 3 months since we been together. Each time we make out, then it leads to her taking everything off and I feel like having sex with her. But then she said, she not ready yet. (Obviously she a virgin)Then say something like "my body says go, but my heart say I'm not ready yet" Maybe I seduced her wrong. Have this ever happened to you guys before, like you want to get laid with your girlfriend, so you feel that you haven't wasted the months you spent with her? And then, what shall I do if next time i get this oppurtunity again, where I have her in my room again? Thanks, any kind of advice or pointers would be greatly appreciated :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Zaine

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Ignore, read next--I screwed up :D
 

Zaine

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Have you been acting needy? Calling her, IMing her, confronting her and always talking to her in the halls, constantly confirming on the date, or suggesting another one?

These are symptoms you may go through if shes acting this way. If any of them apply to you, then you know whats up.

To fix it be available less often, make HER want to set up the date, but YOU decide where to go, and what to do. (In other words make her ask for another date, and when she suggests something, you say, "Nah, let's...")
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