“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My girlfriend+college+my summer...weird.

Patrick124

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I've been with my girlfriend for 5.5 monthes, one of whcih I broke up with her for. I came back to her[it was a weird situation, my face got fvcked up in a fight and I hadnt had sex in weeks cause of school conferences n shat, though i did get with 2 girls lol..] and now we've been dating.
Since then shes taught me how to be a decent boyfriend. But ever single day in the back of my mind is a nagging thing. Shes done with highschool, I'm going to be a senior; when she goes to college in 3 weeks, shes gonna drink[she doesnt drink as of now] party, and probably sleep around because shes pretty easy. I'm honestly kinda looking foward to her leaving because I
ll be free to do w/e i want for a while.
And for that month we were broken up, I made date-plans with a girl that I've never gotten to do since shes been on vacation for 2 monthes stragiht, now shes back and I hope to get her to go to homecoming with me int he upcoming year. She even was so excited about the date she left me a comment on myspace 3 weeks ago; "I'll be home soon Pat, and I do believe I owe you a sushi date!"
basically, do I continue to date around[and how do i do so without cheating, but also not looking like I'm scared to make the first move] lol.
what would you all do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NYC Dude

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Well you will (hopefully) break up with her before she heads off to college, so why not just get it over with now and start dating other girls?
 

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she knows i'm dumping her the day she leaves for college.
and i tried that, that was my reason the first time. i actually liek the chick a lot, but half of me[the pen!s half] wants to date casually.
feel me?
 

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If she knows you are dumping her the day she goes to college, just get it over with. If she already knows, why drag it on?

Ditch her and date around. That is why you are asking us for advice on something you are already going to do.
 
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