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My girlfriend can't kiss

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my girlfriend and I have been together for awhile and she has a problem with kissing. This is my first gf but ive had a lot of exp kissing
How can I teach her to be a good kisser?
 

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She's probably trainable. I taught my boyfriend how to kiss, and now he's fantastic at it.

Tell her to be still and let you kiss her. Show her how you like to be kissed. If she does something you don't like, don't react to it, and when she does something good, react positively (perhaps even exaggeratedly to get the point across). If she kisses you at a rhythm/intensity you don't like, continue to kiss her the way you like it, and don't cave into her style. She'll learn to synchronize with you.

As she improves, pause in mid-make out and remark how great that was. Or simply say, "That was amazing when you did _____." The more positive feedback she gets from you, the more excited she'll become about pleasing you.
 
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