"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My girlfriend can't kiss

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my girlfriend and I have been together for awhile and she has a problem with kissing. This is my first gf but ive had a lot of exp kissing
How can I teach her to be a good kisser?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She's probably trainable. I taught my boyfriend how to kiss, and now he's fantastic at it.

Tell her to be still and let you kiss her. Show her how you like to be kissed. If she does something you don't like, don't react to it, and when she does something good, react positively (perhaps even exaggeratedly to get the point across). If she kisses you at a rhythm/intensity you don't like, continue to kiss her the way you like it, and don't cave into her style. She'll learn to synchronize with you.

As she improves, pause in mid-make out and remark how great that was. Or simply say, "That was amazing when you did _____." The more positive feedback she gets from you, the more excited she'll become about pleasing you.
 
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