"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My girlfriend can't kiss

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Lamia

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my girlfriend and I have been together for awhile and she has a problem with kissing. This is my first gf but ive had a lot of exp kissing
How can I teach her to be a good kisser?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's probably trainable. I taught my boyfriend how to kiss, and now he's fantastic at it.

Tell her to be still and let you kiss her. Show her how you like to be kissed. If she does something you don't like, don't react to it, and when she does something good, react positively (perhaps even exaggeratedly to get the point across). If she kisses you at a rhythm/intensity you don't like, continue to kiss her the way you like it, and don't cave into her style. She'll learn to synchronize with you.

As she improves, pause in mid-make out and remark how great that was. Or simply say, "That was amazing when you did _____." The more positive feedback she gets from you, the more excited she'll become about pleasing you.
 
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